Thanks for all your contributions on what is very important to me . As I said I just want an erection - have been a bottom all my life and am more than happy to stay that way but just want an erection so I can masturbate and get sucked and orgasm as I find my orgasms are now being affected . Lack of...

Hello all . Was just wondering what it is like to bottom if you have an implant . Am considering getting an implant as I’ve had years of suffering from Ed and to be honest it has really depressed me . I love to bottom - not sure if I’d ever like to top - but want my erection for many other reasons a...

Hello guys Been a while since I was on this site . Life took a real tumble so I I had to regroup . Still considering an implant but would like to hear experience from guys who usually like to ‘ bottom ‘ and how they have been after the implant . It’s kind of hard to ask these questions but they are ...

Hello Guys 58 year old Irish guy beginning to suffer from what I think is BPH -getting up to pee at night and sometimes during the night finding it difficult to start . No problems during the day . Probably need to see a uro and then the challenge of deciding on a treatment . Not a clue ! I need to ...

Are you coping ok? Guess sometimes and not others. Your reply gives me hope in relation to the ED. Have always been a bottom but would like my erection back. Just hate not having it. I do if I masturbate and stimulate myself lying down- but with a partner it is awful- I have to make an effort to ma...

Hello . Am a 57 year old gay Male in Dublin Ireland... I had a partner for 25 years and it was not an issue because I felt really good with my partner . Unfortunately he died 8 years ago as a result of radiotherapy having been tested for a stage 1 cancer . It should not have happened as a clot deve...

Hello . Am a 57 year old gay Male in Dublin Ireland . Have had Ed as long as I can remember. Went to urologist here who just said casually that I had venous leak and he showed me an implant . Nice guy but did no tests and just said I should think about it . My own GP just looked at me in horror whe...

Welcone to Franktalk, my Dubliner friend. Asking questions is good and it is sad you have a dearth of support where you live. Ireland is such a beautiful country in many other aspects. Here you should find a safe place to express yourself. Aside from oral and sex toy assisted expression of your phy...

Noel, Welcome. I think you’ve come to the right place. Lots of great information and support here. I don’t think I could have made and stuck to the decision I made if it were not for this forum and it’s members. You’re right, it is a lonely place. ED is just not a topic that you’ll find people comf...

softtohard wrote:where are you from my friend?

Hi and thank you. I am from Dulbin Ireland