Gentlemen: I'm mailing my check and asking that you also give to support our issues and ourselves. Paul has worked very hard to keep this site going while working extra to care for his family and meet is own expenses. Male sexual issues are a sensitive and personal journey. We MUST support ourselves...

PC: Firstly, WELCOME. This is a good place and you will find many of us who have preceded you along this path. Like you, I was fine and enjoying life until that appointment with my Uro. Even with a PSA of 2.8 I had a least two nasty tumors in there that had to be dealt with. I chose robotic surgery ...

Paul: You had the vision and the rest of us the "issue". Your leadership and this clan has began a journey for men everywhere; that we are not alone and this black plague on our lives can be dealt with. Our growth is a result of you and all of us tagging-along. There is so much more to do....

Flop: I agree with Jeff. I think you might wait a bit and talk with the doc first. You do want to pump and there is time and it should help. But everything down there needs to heal and expanding him with a pump right now may not be the best course of action. However, if your sex drive has returned- ...

Guys: From all of us here- take care and stay safe. Looks like the hurricane is now headed in your direction and the world will get very wet and windy around Baton Rouge. Jeff, I think those pecan trees of yours will get a good shake very soon. Want you to know we care! Don't worry about responding ...

Stevie: Welcome. It is nice to have a guy from Scotland. One of my favorite places on earth!!! Well, as long as you continue to produce that elixir of the gods- Single Malt Scotch!! Besides the countryside appears to be some of the most beautiful landscapes I've ever seen. There is a fair amount of ...

Rog3r: First welcome. This is a great place and there is a lot of experience and wisdom here. Like you I am here because of PCa and required robotic surgery. And like you my PSA's remain at 0. It does change things- doesn't it. If I may ask; what are you doing now? If you are not pumping I would sug...

Steel: I am responding so you don't think none of us ever read. I have not heard of this device and have not heard of anyone here using it. That doesn't mean it doesn't work. Maybe all of us are missing the next best thing. When I get an extra minute I will view the website you listed. Also, suggest...

Mike: Welcome, this is a great place to rehab! Since you surgery was in March you are just getting started on the journey. One of the greatest things going for you is your strong sex drive. Right now that is a gift; and use him a much as you can. I am also PCa with robotic surgery and like you went ...

Cmet: I want to be very careful with a response. I in no way want to offend. Simply put- DON'T LOOK BACK. Generally, it takes about a year plus, as I understand, to get penile function back into a more normal state after PCa surgery. Your cancer has caused your ED not your wife's cancer. Granted the...