Good discussion - glad I found it. After prostatectomy, i can only get about 10% hard. I can use my hand and orgasm, but unfortunately, my wife, who is happy to accommodate, can't get the technique exactly right. Also, it takes awhile so she gets tired. She is willing to give oral, but it takes so ...

After prostactectomy (sp?), radiation, and 3 years of lupron injections, erections don't happen for me. I bought a Venus 2000. It's an expensive but reliable solution for self pleasure. I also have a Cobra Libra, Nobra twincharger, and other male vibrators for self pleasure. I supplement these with ...

I've had a Venus 2000 for several years. It is pricey but so is prostate surgery. It has not helped on ED but I've had the gamut of surgery/radiation plus 3 yrs of Lupron (testosterone suppresent). It does not require an erection and gives incredible pleasure. I recommend it.

Hi, I have a similar situation as do some other members. My wife has no inerest in sex. I am 77 she is 75, married 57 years. My only release is masturbation. I am implanted,so no problem getting it up. I do have a floppy head but am still able to orgasam. Just wondering if anyone has any recommenda...

I had RP in 2004 by the old method. Also had 6 weeks of radiation and 3 years Lupron. I'd guess my penis is about 1" smaller when fully erect which only occurs if I inject myself. I don't think it has continued to shrink.

Pheww!! Glad to hear I've got lots of company around me.

Orlando

I've used electrostimulation for about 6 months as a way to pleasure myself. It has not resulted in an erection and from what I've read on another site (Smartstim.com) no one has reported it helping ED. Take a look at the Smartstim site if you haven't already. You'll get a lot of information on elec...

I'm 65 and had a radical prostactectomy in 2004 followed by 3 years of Lupron treatment. During this period I had no sex drive. After the treatment my desire came back like gangbusters but I'm now totally ED'd unless I inject myself. I never had much success with the pump, those rings are just not c...