Thanks, antelope. ALL of our conversations on the topic of Cialis vs. No Cialis have taken place outside the bedroom and with no sexual context at all. Unfortunately, all of our conversations have taken place while my wife is so upset about the fact that I didn't tell her about it in advance that sh...

Thanks. I've already given her the literature and pointed out exactly what you noted -- that these drugs won't work if we're not stimulated -- and so far that hasn't seemed to sink in. I guess we'll see if it ever does. We're not even to the point of talking about this stuff in any reasonable way. S...

Thanks again to all of you. It means a lot to get your views instead of staying in my own head.

Thanks, guys. Bionic, when my ED got significantly worse a few years ago, I had the full battery of tests -- everything you mentioned, plus an ultrasound. I'm not taking any medications that would cause ED and I don't have high blood pressure, diabetes, etc. Borderline LT, but replacement didn't hel...

Thanks, Curt. I definitely didn't help things by concealing the Cialis from her. That's the main problem right now. In a way, her refusal to go along with the Cialis is liberating. I can try her approach -- more therapy, cutting back on my drinking -- and if it doesn't work, then it doesn't work and...

Actually, she didn't much like the Viagra either. On top of her general objection to conventional medical solutions, she also felt like she needed to make an appointment when I only had 8-10 pills a month. So, she's opposed to pretty much any pharmaceutical answer..... Can't imagine what it would ta...

Hi, guys. I'm new to the group. I've had a GREAT experience with 5mg Cialis. I didn't take it every day -- insurance only covered 8 a month -- and it STILL worked like a charm. Took it about an hour before sex, and had erections like I've never had before. Completely wiped out my performance anxiety...

Hi, Guys. I'm 44, married with 2 kids, reasonably healthy other than my ED. Not sure how much detail you're all interested in hearing right off the bat, but here's my story: I've struggled on and off with erection issues my whole adult life. If I had to sum it up, I'd say: It works, but not always.....