I had a radical Davinci robotic prostatectomy in 2013 with removal of the erectile nerve (it was covered with cancer). I had a penile implant in 2017 which works. My penis has the normal sensations of a finger, so I feel touch, pressure, heat/cold, etc. but did not feel sensual. The urologist sugges...

Bandit and Waynetho, It took me some time to think of what to say since I was confused. You see, I was married before. And my first wife was pretty much the same. She told me how lousy I was in bed and very soon said "you can put it in and do whatever you want, but you're not pleasing me."...

@MichaelM, I read the major parts of your story to my wife who agrees with most everyone here in that she wouldn't blame you if you were so inclined to go outside of your current marriage for enjoyment. Withholding gratification when it's fully possible, "just because" might be considered...

My totally non professional opinion. As others have said. After the implant is inflated. A few sessions starting off at some low vacuum settings should tell you how things will react. Be gentle, go slow. Watch for problems. As for relationship advice. Meeting someone who you are compatible with is ...

I pumped up today and put 2 silicone bands around the cock/balls and one around the cock at the base and released the suction after about 10 minutes because I had to pee. Took everything off and urinated, then saw three dark drops of blood come out of the penis. It's been an hour or so, now, and no ...

Waynetho, I've never had good luck with online dating. Most people lie, and I have never had a good date from one (back when I was single). 544Kenmatt, redeeming qualities? As I mentioned before, when sex is working, it's 10% of a relationship, when it isn't, it is 90% of a relationship. But let's s...

Well, no responses for 5 days, so I just have to hope I am right about using the VED with an implant and that there is no danger in doing so. I assume that my lack of responses was the result of my having tried everything with my wife and there is only one choice left: leave her. You guys would have...

I have several pieces of information that apparently are important. We seem to have focused on everything except my question of whether I can use a VED. It seems that I can, but it won't solve the real problem. My wife and I did not have sex before marriage (religious reasons for her, and I knew I h...

I have posted before, when I had my LGX implanted in 2017. I ended up with about 5" of usable penis. My wife has tried out the inflated penis and satisfied herself, but without the penis actually managing to enter her. I have had no success having "fun" myself with her. So I am buyin...

I have posted before, when I had my LGX implanted in 2017. I ended up with about 5" of usable penis. My wife has tried out the inflated penis and satisfied herself, but without the penis actually managing to enter her. I have had no success having "fun" myself with her. So I am buying...