Wow, your replies are so helpful, thank you for your time!!!! So when I say "when it works," I mean getting an erection and then being able to penetrate her with it and have normal sex while staying hard until I cum. The alternative is when I'm panicking and lose my erection as soon as I m...

So for some context, I'm 27 years old and have had two sexual partners. First one I was with for four years and our relationship ended in 2018. We had sex maybe once a month but it was pretty unfulfilling. I jerked off a lot and often had no desire to initiate in sexy things with her. That was basic...