When you're engorged during self-play, does it feel better? Does it feel "worth the trouble" of masturbation? Or are you severely numb no matter what. I do but only by myself, I don’t feel anything during sex I don’t know why that is. It’s made me so depressed to the point I can’t even wo...

It sounds like disesteem and anxiety / depression. I'm not saying it's something you can fix with a pill. A lot of psy drugs have adverse side effects which affect libido, eiaculation, orgasm, etc. Btw try to find help. You're extremely judgmental toward yourself and unable to see anything positive...

I wasn’t depressed though. Dating that girl opened up a lot of insecurities that I have now that I’ve got an implant. I’m 33 years old worried that I have an implant, worried about my size loss, worried if I can satisfy, worried that I have zero sensation, worried that my glans does not engorge and ...

I know but the fact that I’m only 33 years old makes me feel a bit ashamed.

If she did discover it would she have asked me though? I just feel awkward because I have to work with this person and it would be awkward if everyone was talking behind my back? The thought in my head is that everything was going fine until she discovered something was “not right” and then she just...

Yeah but in your opinion, do you think she would ask if she felt anything that was “different” rather than just breaking up with you and making up some other reason as to why that was.

Is this a legitimate concern? Because it just doesn’t make sense to me.

I am concerned that maybe the girl found out I have an implant but I’m not sure how she would of, and would she of said anything to me because she doesn’t want to see me anymore but her reasons are not that. Maybe she found out and didn’t want to make me feel bad by asking me? Would she of asked any...

The scarring is inside my penis and it’s not visible (under the skin) and every since I felt the pain of the injury (which is like a tear) I’ve had soft glans and a smaller penis (not as engorged). I thought that by having the operation that I would somehow have a penis that would get hard but all I...

I do but only by myself, I don’t feel anything during sex I don’t know why that is.

It’s made me so depressed to the point I can’t even work.

I guess it feels more natural if your spongiosum and glans get some engorgement but otherwise, like me it might not feel normal.

I don’t know, it was just a thought. Mine looks normal to me I’m just not sure a woman would know by touching it or not.