Some good replies here. If I was asked that question, my answer would be a simple two part response - First, I enjoy sex with an erection, second, my wife enjoys sex when I have an erection. No further explanation is needed to justify - hard stop, over, out.

I started having ED symptoms 4 years ago. At the time my mental health wasn't the best so this ED really put me in a dark devastated state. I did a penile doppler to measure blood flow which showed arterial insufficiency (20cm/sec). Doctors told me I'm fine and dismissed me with a Cialis prescripti...

I've been dealing with PD for a few years now. I also had a loss in length, but an increase in girth where it looked swollen. The girth increase was a major problem for my wife because her southern anatomy is small, this caused both of us pain. It didn't help being curved to the side either, had it ...

Mine is still in her 50's but had menopause induced in her 40's to deal with endometriosis. She is now in natural menopause. To answer your question, mine has an overactive libido to begin with, and is horny often, but there were days after her period that she was really off the hook. Despite not ha...

Your curvature looks to be about ~30-35 degrees. That's about where I currently am after a couple years of treatment. I initially started out ~47 degree to the right and couldn't have intercouse without pain...now I can, but still have some residual pain at times. To answer your question, you have t...

We should have a chat. I have been dealing with PD and my doctor had me start penile modeling with a traction device along with medicine to encourage blood flow in the area for healing. He told me to use those methods until it stabilized and my pain was gone, then we could decide on the method of tr...

The short answer is yes, but depends on the situation. If she is giving me a quickie, she may or may not orgasm since the focus is on me. When we are having some good time together she will orgasm many times -- and when the focus is just on her, she will go on for hours chasing the next orgasm. She ...

There are a couple of issues to consider. With diabetes, sometimes the bladder nerves are damaged and the bladder neck doesn't full close during ejaculation, which becomes the path of least resistance for your ejaculate. There are a bunch of medicines that can cause this too...I used to be on Tamsul...

For us, it's a non-issue. We are accommodating to each others needs. That said, my wife has a strong libido, so she probably doesn't align with how many people describe their female partner. If I am horny and she isn't, or has something to do, she will still make time to give me a quickie, no recipr...

I think music can certainly increase the mood -- and perhaps influence the tempo for doing the "dirty" lol. Not sure whether it would increase a fetish though, I guess that would be determined on an individual level.