Is it too late?

What are your fears? Ideas? Hints? to coping with ED. What helps you with your mental game? How are relationships affected?
cmetalman
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Re: Is it too late?

Postby cmetalman » Thu Aug 23, 2012 10:25 am

I always LOVED the girl on girl action.

3mtrship

Re: Is it too late?

Postby 3mtrship » Thu Aug 23, 2012 12:28 pm

Well my friend, as I read it looks like the fella's have given you some good advise. Take it and then........

So let's talk about where we go for porn. Personally I like ( http://xhamster.com/login.php )

Who else has a recommendation for free porn with no viruses.

Jim

boomerbody
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Re: Is it too late?

Postby boomerbody » Fri Aug 24, 2012 9:57 am

Here's my two cents worth........

I personally think it is not too late as I feel there are many options available to you and you have to do a lot of experimenting to find out what is right for you. Try not to compare yourself to some perceived norm.

Once diagnosed with PCa, I was put on Jalyn to prevent the prostate from becoming irritated by the cancer and everything else I had going on. It worked well to keep me comfortable, urinate easily, and not have continuing inflammations. However, it prevented me from having an erection or at least one that could be used for anything. I was on this medication for about a year and a half so not having erections after surgery was not a huge revelation to me, to say the least! Now, cancer free, Jalyn is gone, and I am concentrating on dealing with the initial incontinence and ED. I know you can work through all of this with the support here and the use of tools available.

John

cmetalman
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Re: Is it too late?

Postby cmetalman » Fri Aug 24, 2012 5:41 pm

I take cialis 20mg average twice a week and self-stimulate.My next step is Trimix.The thing is that I don't want to pressure my wife into having sex but want to be ready when she is.She is having a hard time mentaly dealing with her going through surgery and radiation. Has any one here taken Trimix just for the therapy not for intercourse?

antelope
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Re: Is it too late?

Postby antelope » Fri Aug 24, 2012 9:52 pm

Not JUST for therapy, but certainly in addition to intercourse. Like most men, my sexual appetite--even in my dotage--far exceeds that of my bride. It is what it is.

Greg
Born 1948, wed 1969. BPH & Type II Diabetes at age 35. TURP-2002; ED even before that--diabetes. Cardiac valve surgery: 2007 & 2019. Poor results with pills. Started trimix injections in Nov, 2010. Great results from the very beginning.

cmetalman
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Re: Is it too late?

Postby cmetalman » Sat Aug 25, 2012 11:39 am

If I try the Trimix but wife isn't ready yet then what...go shoot pool with my new found pool stick?

antelope
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Re: Is it too late?

Postby antelope » Sat Aug 25, 2012 6:39 pm

Take matters into your own hands.

G
Born 1948, wed 1969. BPH & Type II Diabetes at age 35. TURP-2002; ED even before that--diabetes. Cardiac valve surgery: 2007 & 2019. Poor results with pills. Started trimix injections in Nov, 2010. Great results from the very beginning.

buckster
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Re: Is it too late?

Postby buckster » Sat Aug 25, 2012 6:46 pm

cmetalman wrote:If I try the Trimix but wife isn't ready yet then what...go shoot pool with my new found pool stick?

Take it easy.... settle down... "get a hold of yourself" :lol:
Age 71. Married 52 years. Location Oregon. PCa at age 56. Open RP surgery and radiation treatment. Oral or injection drugs didn't work. Implanted 10/13/20. Titan Narrow Base 18cm with 1cm left and 1.5cm right rear tip extenders.

cmetalman
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Re: Is it too late?

Postby cmetalman » Sat Aug 25, 2012 7:04 pm

So are you saying to get a "grib of myself"?

buckster
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Re: Is it too late?

Postby buckster » Sat Aug 25, 2012 8:21 pm

cmetalman wrote:So are you saying to get a "grib of myself"?

Grib?? Is that a play on words... grip + rub... or just a funny typing error???
Age 71. Married 52 years. Location Oregon. PCa at age 56. Open RP surgery and radiation treatment. Oral or injection drugs didn't work. Implanted 10/13/20. Titan Narrow Base 18cm with 1cm left and 1.5cm right rear tip extenders.


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