Fed up

[abhishek26]

Well, looks like she’s gone! That’s 4 in a row now. It hurts because I did my absolute best and it’s still not good enough. Just really pissed off and dejected right now. Not really sure where to go from here. It takes a lot of effort and emotional investment for me to find a girl I like, get her out on a date and then progress to sex for her just to walk. I have everything else in the bag just not the sex! I’m a gym rat, nice clothes, good job, nice house. Makes me laugh how women go on about men just wanting sex etc. etc. But when it comes to them they are just the same if not worse!
Seriously considering getting an implant now to somehow get me out of this mess. I don’t see the point in dating and getting to know somebody for them to walk shortly after. Is there a woman on plant earth who would be willing to accept me flaws and all? I’m really starting to doubt it.

I feel you bro... i understand you are probably against injections so just go for the implant. we are all rooting for you

[pete199]

You should at least try injections...many guys have the best sex of their lives on BiMix/TriMix. I know I did!!

I may discuss this with my urologist next although I’m not a fan of injections as it is! I think I may as well go for the nuclear option and get an implant as don’t think I have anything left to loose at this point

[pete199]

I may discuss this with my urologist next although I’m not a fan of injections as it is! I think I may as well go for the nuclear option and get an implant as don’t think I have anything left to loose at this point

When you face a major surgery on your little guy, I would never say you have nothing left to lose. It's a serious major surgery and there are risks and possible complications. You can definitely lose something if things go wrong.

Good point and I see what you are saying and there are risks involved. It’s balancing that risk with whether I want to be single indefinitely or have a shot at a relationship with a decent woman.

[Lost Sheep]

I may discuss this with my urologist next although I’m not a fan of injections as it is! I think I may as well go for the nuclear option and get an implant as don’t think I have anything left to loose at this point

When you face a major surgery on your little guy, I would never say you have nothing left to lose. It's a serious major surgery and there are risks and possible complications. You can definitely lose something if things go wrong.

Good point and I see what you are saying and there are risks involved. It’s balancing that risk with whether I want to be single indefinitely or have a shot at a relationship with a decent woman.

I will point out the obvious. A woman who will reject you just because you cannot get an erection is not a "decent woman". If you are interested in finding a woman WORTH investing your time in, do not make sex so high on your priority list. I know, at your age, that is difficult advice to take, but in a lifelong scheme, you will be better off.

Of course, I recall my younger days. I am not made of stane. I also recall one internet ad wherein a woman was looking specifically for a man who

[Lost Sheep]

I may discuss this with my urologist next although I’m not a fan of injections as it is! I think I may as well go for the nuclear option and get an implant as don’t think I have anything left to loose at this point

When you face a major surgery on your little guy, I would never say you have nothing left to lose. It's a serious major surgery and there are risks and possible complications. You can definitely lose something if things go wrong.

Good point and I see what you are saying and there are risks involved. It’s balancing that risk with whether I want to be single indefinitely or have a shot at a relationship with a decent woman.

I will point out the obvious. A woman who will reject you just because you cannot get an erection is not a "decent woman". If you are interested in finding a woman WORTH investing your time in, do not make sex so high on your priority list. I know, at your age, that is difficult advice to take, but in a lifelong scheme, you will be better off.

Of course, I recall my younger days. I am not made of stane. I also recall one internet ad wherein a woman was looking specifically for an impotent man. She reasoned that he would be more skilled at cunnilingus. (I will testify that, as my E.D. got worse over the decades I did develop that skill and can attest that (most) women do appreciate that skill. My current girlfriend does appreciate this even now, when I have a durable everlasting erection.