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I have a question about dating when you have Ed .
I take Levitra and I have no problem. It's telling them I have to take it is the issue. How does everyone cope and what are your thoughts and wife or girlfriends and thoughts!!
Thanks alot
I'm 41 been dealing with this since I was 25

Honesty is the best policy. If they are offended or not ready to accept that you have an issue and work with you, not against you, then they are not worth your effort. Kick them to the curb and move on.

Welcome to the forum.

I posted on a dating web site seeking a woman willing to accompany me on my journey from impotence to a probable implant..

I got a lot of support and encouragement and a few volunteers willing to do the "before and after" experience with me. I also got respect for my courage in being so candid.

Women are incredibly supportive when they feel safe, respected, trusted. They also respect a man who is willing to take c his problems to solve them and not go into denial.

Do what you think best with my experience..

That is amazingly great infornation. Makes the dating experience so much easier to put it out there in front of strangers. Because you'd be surprised at the responses that you might recieve. Penis or no penis we as men can always find someone to love you. I'm currently experiencing issues and many of women have been accepting and I have been able to be open and honest about my ed. The hard and what takes a while is finding that someone special that is accepting and whom you also like and enjoy spending time witb. That's what takes a while. I have one now that I enjoy but I still play the field for personal reasons

My wife of course knows when I’m jacked, usually me reddish flush or I’ll just mention it. I’ve had a few fwb’s/mistresses and never mentioned anything to them since the sex was a certainty and all rendezvous were out of town. When I’ve scored one night stands on business trips once I know what’s probable I just discreetly take and buy enough time before the deed. Of course during pay for play ( AMPs) who cares?

The above advice is all well and great. I have had girlfriends be very supportive as well. I'm single now and not looking for a girlfriend. Just want to have fun. How would you guys approach this with someone who your not looking to date? How do you get emotional support from a stranger? I'm guessing you might say be honest with them. Hopefully they are decent people and willing to work with you.