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Re: I just give up.
Posted: Fri Dec 27, 2019 1:16 pm
by bldoink
I'll make the same reply as I did in your other location, except I'll add that if I had a normally functioning dick I wouldn't be hanging out on this site.
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I have a friend that was seriously damaged in the groin during an airborne training accident involving a tree. He has led an active sex life with multiple partners and then with a wife and committed partner for for the past 15 or more years. He specializes in oral and is a big fan of face sitting. He can never have natural children and wouldn't want to at this point but has had a rich and apparently satisfying sex life for many years. I strongly suspect your privates are in far better shape than his. He got lemons. He made lemonade. He seems happy.
I'm not suggesting your situation parallels my friends situation. I'm not suggesting you don't have more hope for a standard conventional sex life with partners. I wouldn't know. I'm just saying there is hope for a satisfying life even when you are dealt some crappy cards.
I wish you the best and I pray you find some answers in the coming year.
Re: I just give up.
Posted: Fri Jan 10, 2020 12:36 pm
by Lost Sheep
needsomehope wrote:there's just no hope for some of us. best to accept and embrace that my life is a fucking nightmare of a joke.
When life is a joke, show your mettle. Laugh in its face and resist. "Do not go gentle into that good night." "Rage, rage against the dying of the light".
You have value and something to contribute to the world (I discern from your depth of feeling and ability to string words together). Do not extinguish that light. Your trials can be fodder to benefit others who need you. Need your wisdom. Need to hear your story. Share it. Share it now. And not just here. A support group where you can show others face-to-face the pain and perseverance the E.D. and other challenges you have faced and are facing. Your experience is important to share. Your reason for being on this Earth is not yet fulfilled.
Re: I just give up.
Posted: Fri Mar 12, 2021 7:20 am
by Artmopic
Keep your head high, brother! A man is NOT defined by such trivial things you mentioned. I know that pain all too well, but halt the mental torture you experience for a moment and consider that the penis issues you have may very well saved you from a far worse fate.
Have you checked the divorce statistics and how bad those men have it? Or maybe have you checked out the STD statistics and seen how bad those men have it? There are antibiotic-resistant STDs now, and more prevalent than one would expect. Or maybe have you checked out the violent crime statistics and seen how many of those were done due to underlying sexual relations of sorts?
Rejoice, for you've successfully avoided all these by just keeping it in your pants.
We live in possibly the greatest times the human race has ever seen, brother. In fact, the technology is so advanced that you could get one VR Helmet and you'd be set with all the best hotties right in front of your face for life. Or you could do whatever else you wish to.
Here's a quote from the great Marcus Aurelius:
“Misfortune nobly born is good fortune.”
Re: I just give up.
Posted: Fri Mar 12, 2021 8:09 am
by LeRoastBeef
Artmopic, while I respect your effort to help, and your interesting way of thinking (I'm not trying to be condescending, you have given me food for thought, you're right quite frankly), I am pretty sure (being in a similar, although admittedly less horrible, position to op) that you're insights are not going to go down well.
Better to have fucked and lost, than to have never fucked at all.
Re: I just give up.
Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2021 3:05 pm
by Martin6469
needsomehope: I see you have low testosterone. This inevitably causes depression independently of whatever else is going on in your life. Have a G.P. or endocrinologist get you on synthetic testosterone. It's a 100 percent remedy and works immediately.
Re: I just give up.
Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2021 3:17 pm
by ViaSwiss
needsomehope, I was in your shoes exactly. I just got implanted.
Re: I just give up.
Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2021 6:19 pm
by dunbar57
I just saw this post and realize it's not new. I'm so sorry for your challenges, and for the way you feel.
I understand your anger towards God.
Here's a man who has terrible physical issues. I hope his story will encourage you.
https://youtu.be/tJnJ_fTYofQneedsomehope wrote:I'm just done. it's been 15 years since I've had anyone but me touch my penis. no penetration, no blowjobs, no nothing. most of my 20's and almost all my 30's just wasted. I'm so far beyond depressed I just can't take it anymore. I got cursed with a small penis to begin with, then God decided it'd be funny to throw every penile affliction at me. hourglass peyronies, venous leak, scrotal webbing from an overzealous circumcision, life-long low testosterone... I'm just doomed.
no one is supposed to live without sex and love. I just can't take it anymore. I'm a good person with many positive attributes. I attract women left and right, but can't do anything about it. it's literal torture. I've been so depressed that I let my life fall apart. I wish I could get an implant, but there's no way I could afford it. hell, I can't make rent next month. didn't get to see my family for Christmas because I couldn't afford to travel.
not sure why I'm even writing this. maybe because you guys can understand how much sexual dysfunction can ruin a man's life. I'm not even a "man", just some pathetic creature.
well I truly hope you all enjoy your 6 and 7 inch + functioning penises. I'd give anything to be in your shoes. maybe next lifetime. I just hope this one ends soon.
Re: I just give up.
Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2021 6:43 pm
by cbinspok
Needsomehope, You are here letting us know your pain is real, Believe me I know how you feel. Do you have a brother or dad you can talk to. Feeling alone with this Ed shiz is the worst. My dad and only brother are gone now but i have this crew with funny names Lol. I think you will have the strength to contact the best place you can find and ask for resources. Also throw your self into work take any job you can get and get good at it, keep your mind busy this Ed landscape will eat you up. Give yourself a break when no one else will! Stay busy and then start with baby steps towards resolving this, It will take time- give that to yourself. We have some VERY smart chaps on this site who may be able to help with ideas. Hang in there, Remember the faster way to chee up is to cheer up someone else.
Hugs Bro cbinspok
Re: I just give up.
Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2021 5:41 pm
by Pquigs
I am 56. Just got diagnosed with two venous leaks. I had five prostrate surgeries done.
I had no choice but to get an implant
How big is your penis. I am slightly over 5 inches. You don’t need much to have good sex.
Get the implant. Get the right doctor.
Just had implant 8 weeks ago. Very stressed wondering if I made the right move as a 56 maybe soon to be single guy.
Go do it and get out there.
Regards.
Re: I just give up.
Posted: Thu Aug 31, 2023 1:57 pm
by Raynardi
Ciao, cerca di reagire. Pensa che io mi aono perdutamente innamorato di un uomo totalmente impotente, ma che aveva un modo di baciare e di toccarmi che mi faceva totalmente impazzire. Quindi......io dico sempre che CE N'È PER TUTTI. Buona reazione positiva!