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My life would’ve been so amazing

Posted: Mon May 05, 2025 5:38 am
by Gadsiee
If it wasn’t for this effin ED. I’m 28. Even before i ever had sex a a teenager i somehow knew performance anxiety was gonna be an issue so i self sabotaged dates. I had 2 relationships because they accepted my ED in the beginning and I could subsequently get myself erect fantasizing about weird porn scenarios in my head during sex (very exhausting and not fair to the girls). Also if we’re being honest i probably settled for them since they were accepting.

I think porn during my early years are part of the problem, but obviously not the full problem. My main issue is with libido.

I recently had a one night stand, miraculously went successfully (with viagra + PT141 ofcourse, otherwise i dont even have to try). I saw her a few timesafter but couldnt get it up anymore, even with the usual pharmaceuticals. I’m about to break it off because i cant handle the embarrassment anymore.

This may sound like a luxury problem for some here. But I fucked like a rockstar that first round, which makes all the subsequent failures more frustrating.

A few months ago i had another one night stand abroad in NYC, very beautiful girl. She begged me to fuck her, but i didn’t have any viagra with me so it was a failure. Having a hot and wet girl begging you to fuck her but you can’t might be one of the worst things a man can experience

I’m a pretty goodlooking guy, i have a big dick, i get so many opportunities for sex, but I just know i can’t make it happen. It’s been my #1 dream since a boy to be a womanizer. And god has given me everything to be that, except the only thing that matters in the end. Life feels completely useless. I can’t enjoy anything, and i’m getting older. I could have had many romantic adventures with many beautiful women. I could have looked back on my life with pride, but it’s instead it’s just empty.

I’m gonna demand penile injections next week, but the missed opportunities will never be won back. Not to mention the soft glans you supposedly still have with trimix and the like

Re: My life would’ve been so amazing

Posted: Tue May 06, 2025 2:08 pm
by Martin6469
1. You have plenty of time left to develop a solution.
2. What have urologists said?
3. If you haven't found an ED specialist, look for that urology speciality at a large practice.
4. I've been injecting for eight years and my glans is not soft.
5. Cure your depression with vigorous workouts which will release your body's feel-good hormone.

Re: My life would’ve been so amazing

Posted: Tue May 06, 2025 2:42 pm
by ElbowRoom
Gadsiee wrote:If it wasn’t for this effin ED. I’m 28. Even before i ever had sex a a teenager i somehow knew performance anxiety was gonna be an issue so i self sabotaged dates. I had 2 relationships because they accepted my ED in the beginning and I could subsequently get myself erect fantasizing about weird porn scenarios in my head during sex (very exhausting and not fair to the girls). Also if we’re being honest i probably settled for them since they were accepting.

I think porn during my early years are part of the problem, but obviously not the full problem. My main issue is with libido.

I recently had a one night stand, miraculously went successfully (with viagra + PT141 ofcourse, otherwise i dont even have to try). I saw her a few timesafter but couldnt get it up anymore, even with the usual pharmaceuticals. I’m about to break it off because i cant handle the embarrassment anymore.

This may sound like a luxury problem for some here. But I fucked like a rockstar that first round, which makes all the subsequent failures more frustrating.

A few months ago i had another one night stand abroad in NYC, very beautiful girl. She begged me to fuck her, but i didn’t have any viagra with me so it was a failure. Having a hot and wet girl begging you to fuck her but you can’t might be one of the worst things a man can experience

I’m a pretty goodlooking guy, i have a big dick, i get so many opportunities for sex, but I just know i can’t make it happen. It’s been my #1 dream since a boy to be a womanizer. And god has given me everything to be that, except the only thing that matters in the end. Life feels completely useless. I can’t enjoy anything, and i’m getting older. I could have had many romantic adventures with many beautiful women. I could have looked back on my life with pride, but it’s instead it’s just empty.

I’m gonna demand penile injections next week, but the missed opportunities will never be won back. Not to mention the soft glans you supposedly still have with trimix and the like


Have you had your testosterone checked? I had early low testosterone, starting in my early 30s. I have been using testosterone injections ever since and my libido is always strong, like a man in his 20s (if only my old body could keep up!). At 31 my testosterone was 281, now I'm 58 and my last checkup it was 753.

Fixing low T might improve/fix your ED, or it might have no effect. But if it's low and you fix it, I'd be shocked if low libido remains an issue.

I've been on penile injections for over a decade. The shots work great for me, and I got lucky and have suffered no ill effects, but a lot of guys get scarring, fibrosis, and Peyronie's disease from the shots. And it kills spontaneity, having to stop things or schedule sex to shoot up and wait for it to take effect. -- definitely not ideal for a single guy.

If I had it to do over, I'd try shots just as a test or stopgap, but probably would go to an Implant ASAP.

Re: My life would’ve been so amazing

Posted: Wed May 07, 2025 4:03 am
by newhope
man, if pills and other treatmeants dont' work reliabily, just go straigth to the implant route and live happily after