Need to vent

[Canadian_patient]

Hey guys,


Just when I thought things couldn't get any worse-- (I could hardly get erections a few months ago)-- now, things have gotten 2x even worse. A month ago, I got mad that I couldn't get hard 100% so I stroked my unit too hard during masturbation and ended up hurting myself. Well, guess what. Seems that now that pain is PERMANENT... hooray. When I get boners now, it hurts me a bit at the same spot. Plus my boners have a different "feel" now... I dunno how to describe it but it's like there's much more pressure on the tip of the glans/frenulum now.

I'm actually SCARED to get boners now. I'm even more scared to get an implant because I'm scared of the fact that this same pain could be amplified.

So now boners are almost impossible to get. I do get them in the morning (thanks to daily 5mg cialis), but that's about it... when I'm aroused, I get a semi-boner that hurts me (a bit) and I can't get it to 100% unless I'm lucky. Also, I noticed that my unit stretches differently during arousal now... it is completely crooked and gets straigthened up at 100%... before, that would never happen.

Man, I feel SO MAD at myself for that DUMB mistake of stroking too hard. But I can't believe that ONE bad move could cause this type of permanent soreness/pain. Right now I'm furious, I punched the wall hundreds of time... and the worst part is that I can't do nothing about it. I'm seeing my uro next week but he doesn't take me seriously.

Honestly, I'm giving up soon. Can't believe that this BS could happen to me so easily.

End of rant...

[David_R]

If your urologist doesn't take you seriously, find another urologist. You should not have to live like this.

[alibaba]

Agreed on finding another doc if you are getting no help. Fractures are something you may need to go to emergency to get prompt care rather than wait weeks for an appointment. You may have a fracture. Some heal on their own, some need repair, some docs will give you meds to reduce your boners for a month or so to let it heal. Find a doc that will help and gives a damn. If you have to stroke the thing up and demonstrate then do it. If the doc is not up to that and it is what it takes, then why is he a dick doc?

[PFracture]

In Canada, finding another urologist, means going through a referral from your family doctor, or GP at the walkin clinic, so it takes take. Good luck with this, and if you have the financial possibility, why not seek care on the states? You can get help much faster at reputable doctors, if necessary.

[Canadian_patient]

In Canada, finding another urologist, means going through a referral from your family doctor, or GP at the walkin clinic, so it takes take. Good luck with this, and if you have the financial possibility, why not seek care on the states? You can get help much faster at reputable doctors, if necessary.

Yeah exactly. Plus, it takes 3-4 months to get one appointment with my uro. And yes I'm considering the states, especially Dr Eid

[Canadian_patient]

Agreed on finding another doc if you are getting no help. Fractures are something you may need to go to emergency to get prompt care rather than wait weeks for an appointment. You may have a fracture. Some heal on their own, some need repair, some docs will give you meds to reduce your boners for a month or so to let it heal. Find a doc that will help and gives a damn. If you have to stroke the thing up and demonstrate then do it. If the doc is not up to that and it is what it takes, then why is he a dick doc?

Fracture? Wow that's very scary, I didn't expect that :O

How can you repair a fracture? With an implant I guess?

[Canadian_patient]

If your urologist doesn't take you seriously, find another urologist. You should not have to live like this.

Good point, I was considering that but it's hard to find another one here-- I'm considering visiting Dr Eid maybe...

[PFracture]

I mean... How exactly did you hurt yourself? Did you hear any pop sound? Bruising, hematoma? Did you loose your erection when you hurt yourself? Plus, you contradict yourself on the explanation of your incident and symptoms if you read it thoroughly. At least to me.

Also, if you really wanna diagnose the exact causes of your ed there's tests you can make...

[Canadian_patient]

I mean... How exactly did you hurt yourself? Did you hear any pop sound? Bruising, hematoma? Did you loose your erection when you hurt yourself? Plus, you contradict yourself on the explanation of your incident and symptoms if you read it thoroughly. At least to me.

Also, if you really wanna diagnose the exact causes of your ed there's tests you can make...

I didn't hear a popping sound but I did feel a sting that was painful and that pain made me lose my erection..

No bruising or hematoma...

[PFracture]

Even if you did fracture your penis, mildly, after all this time, there is nothing you can do to repair it, besides leaving your penis alone for 6 to 8 weeks if you haven't done so. Repair for a fracture is surgical, done after diagnosis at the er, and it has a time window of 24 to 48 hours. After that, nobody touches you to "repair any tear you night have done". That was my experience and also, based on what I read about it on so many sources.

Welcome aboard.