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I feel like I have created an animal. I have been on testosterone replacement therapy about 6 months and I am way horney most of the time. Way more than my wife will put up with. The problem I have is, I am looking at Friends with Benefits and other things that go against my moral code. So I am thinking about stoping the treatments and going backwards
Any suggestions or advice. One friend said poke anything that will hold still maybe that's the answer. That would kill my wife and I don't know how I'd feel in the end.

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Hi David just come to this, so how's thing going now and do hope you have not stopped your shots at full strength, did you think about just cutting say third off and see what that did for you? Why we do need some testosterone for daily use, so a third off may just be the level you do need to keep things ticking over and a happy marriage, without you chasing your wife round with a full erection saying its only the fifth time to day dear and so on.

Hope this helps you, if not to late.

NOWHARD

Thanks for the reply. I just met with my Dr and we are not stopping or reducing the rate. It's just that sex is pretty much all I think about these days. With a menaposal wife that doesn't work so well. I handle it (no pun intended) with new sex toys and other things but the urge to bore the real thing is very strong. So it's more of a moral delima for me. I will be alone for 4 months this summer in the US so that will be a problem I think.

Another thing has also started to happen. I am getting a pretty hard eriction on most mornings before I wake up fully. Of course don't know if it would sustain sex but it's there and that is all new post surgery. I only take a Nebido shot every 2 months or 8 weeks not daily so might be hard to cut back on the dose and keep things on the even keel.

Hi David, With what I have been on get lots of morning woods, been on low dose Cialis for the last week or so just as a back for the wife as she has caught up with out in Greece, long story, but one thing it gives us a long ride each day, but will be off it soon.

But as for your 4 months its going to be back to hand jobs, just like I have been, its what our rights hands was made for.

NOWHARD

Now hard thanks for the reply. Yep hand jobs but I bought a new electronic masterbating machine think that will be even better and keep me of the streets. LOL

I'm a little worried about you leaving for four months with the way your mental state is. I remember a story about a pastor who strayed with a member of the congregation. When talking to someone else, he had a revelation. He said: "I never gave myself the propensity to stay faithful."

Another-words, if you leave yourself the OPTION to stray, you will most definitely do it. If it is absolutely not an option, it won't happen. Just as if you would never drive your car into a concrete embankment at top speed if your team lost because suicide is not an option, you should maintain a propensity to stay with your wife only. If suicide becomes an option in one's life, it will happen eventually.

I know how it is to crawl up the walls. Get yourself a top-of-the-line masturbating machine when you get to your destination. You may want to think twice about putting your current device in your luggage unless you don't mind the embarrassment. Good luck.

Thanks for advice greatly appreciated. Have a new toy already to try it got rave reviews

I think more importantly is that I don't put my self in a compromising situation. That would be a receipt for disaster.