Older wives

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
Howling8
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Re: Older wives

Postby Howling8 » Mon Oct 30, 2023 4:43 pm

My wife lost interest during Covid and the getting older blues. She's been trying hard with her doctor and therapist. We also have a middle aged child back in the house which has put a wrench in our routine lol. Never bothered her when they were kids but...We only do it about 2x per month. We tried for at least once a week. She just finally started getting horny when we were on a mini vacation last week and BOOM here libido kicked back in. Mr Happy was ecstatic too. Hope it continues. I'm on TRT and really miss our sex life as it was. I have had DE for years now, I'm trying to refrain from jerking off and watching videos of us in days gone by. When I do I have been able to come during sex. We have just gotten into toys now and my pocket pussy gets me to the trigger point pretty quickly and then I finish in her mouth.
Thanks
67 yr old, married 20 yrs,
Cialis, Trimix since 2004
MIA in 2004
Implanted by Dr Guise on 10/28/21
Pre-op: 6.3" length 6" girth
14 mos post op: 6.5" lento and 5.75 girth on shaft and 6" at the base

Bigdave
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Re: Older wives

Postby Bigdave » Tue Oct 31, 2023 1:10 am

oldbeek wrote:When my wife had sex, it became once a month when her cycle hit. I was 80 and her 79. She loved oral sex and would flow instill my eyebrows were covered with foam. After she came , she. could not stand to have her clit touched any more. I would roller her on her face and lick her ass then move back and forth to her clit and ass until she started humping again. I then would slide my dick into her and pump while stratleing her legs. With her chubby little ass that is a very tight position. After thrusting a while and feeling her come on again, I would wet my thumb and message her ass hole. She would really turn on and that super excites me. I would slide my thumb all the way in and fuck her ass with my thumb while thrusting into her pussy with my dick till we would both explode together. I remember on my 75th birthday before PC, she gave me a blow job that I will never forget. She had me on my hands and knees with my balls lightly brushing the big hotel pillow. Her head on pillow as i gently thrusted into her mouth she caressed my balls and sucked me till I exploded into her. She never slowed a bit but gently kept sucking till I was completely soft. The nerves in my cock are super sensitive after I come. Her suck and swallow technique is the ultimate experience.
Sorry to be so graphic, but memories are all I have now as she slowly dieing of cancer as I am writing this.


So sorry to hear of your wife's condition, but glad that you have those memories, and were able to enjoy a long lasting and fun sex life with her.
God Bless.
Age 59. AMS 700 LGX 21cm + 2cm RTE.
Peniscrotal, 2/23.
6.25" OEM with Cialis, about 5" post-op. (11/01: Length 6.75" and girth is up to 4.75" mid shaft.) Still growing, albeit slowly. :D
Cycling daily. Hoping to get to 7". ;)

Lakeshore52
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Re: Older wives

Postby Lakeshore52 » Mon Nov 04, 2024 3:41 pm

I'm 72 and my wife is 66. We still have a decent sex life, but don't have sex as often as we did when younger. I have an implant so when we do have sex I can last until she's satisfied.
One change for us is we don't try any Kama Sutra positions when we have sex. It's alright with me to have sex in comfortable positions. I like slow, sensuous sex with no fear of a kink in my back or neck..

indybanker
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Re: Older wives

Postby indybanker » Thu Nov 07, 2024 4:07 pm

Hi guys,
I'm 78 and my wife of 16 years is 77. My wife and I have sex when we are home about once a week usually in the mornings when I'm not so damned tired. On vacations we will have sex 3-4 times a week. My previous wife died in 2005 which is about the same time my current wife divorced her husband of 30 years. She had had a very inhibited sex life and had never given or received oral. That changed! The first night we slept together she had 4 oral orgasms. It was a while before she gave me a blow job but it finally happened and I think it truly empowered her. Now after 16 years of marriage she still has an enormous appetite for sex. I wish I could match hers! She is up for just about anything except anal. Well, I could go on and on about my wife and sex but I'm certain it would bore you to tears.

mrksman
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Re: Older wives

Postby mrksman » Thu Nov 07, 2024 5:48 pm

Thanks Indybanker, not boring at all.
Age 58, happily married over 38 years. T levels fluctuate but often on the low end. Cialis (Tadalafil) was working great but not so much lately. Viagra works most of the time. Use a Vacurect VED with a PosTVac Mach Ring as a backup.

scharff
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Re: Older wives

Postby scharff » Sun Nov 17, 2024 7:07 am

Aging was a problem for us compounded by a hysterctomy. She simply doesn't want sex but if we do get together, usually on a vacation, she happily masturbates in front of me and has a wonderful orgasm followed by me servicing her orally to another great climax. She doesn't have the desire for sex but she still reacts to stimulation like she always did. Sadly, there is no penetration so my finish is doing it by hand on her. Still feels good though but certainly not like the old days.

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SWorks17
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Re: Older wives

Postby SWorks17 » Mon Nov 18, 2024 9:10 am

Hey guys, I’m 66 and my wife is 62, I’ve always had a higher sex drive than my wife but we have had a decent sex life over 35 years. We like to spoon fuck , rear vaginal penetration, if her back is hurting, but after we both get our juices flowing we go to missionary, which I can really get deep into her, especially if she raises her legs high and hugs my torso. ;)
Our sex life has gotten so much better now that she is getting hormone replacement therapy. She get testosterone, estrogen pellets every four months. It has been a game changer for our sex life, she is a lot hornier than our early years when we first got married. She gets super wet when we start having foreplay and kissing and my bionic dick just slides in when she is ready for me to penetrate and our sex sessions have been a lot more passionate. She likes my bionic dick to be super hard, so I pump it as much as I can to get in every last squeeze on the pump.
I hope that we keep having sex like this and our health continues to be good.
I think my wife always had low hormones but after a fellow FrankTalk brothers wife got hormone replacement and told us how great it is, I encouraged my wife to get checked and her levels were really low, now they are normal. Love it :)

SWorks
Age 66, Garden Ridge Texas, Progressive ED after Boston Scientific Rezum procedure for benign enlarged prostate 19 May 21, AMS LGX 18 w 3cm rear tips installed 5 Nov 2021 by Dr Shane Barney, Brooke Army Medical Center, San Antonio, Texas, Married 36 years

ape1100
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Re: Older wives

Postby ape1100 » Tue Nov 19, 2024 7:16 am

SWorks17 wrote:Hey guys, I’m 66 and my wife is 62, I’ve always had a higher sex drive than my wife but we have had a decent sex life over 35 years. We like to spoon fuck , rear vaginal penetration, if her back is hurting, but after we both get our juices flowing we go to missionary, which I can really get deep into her, especially if she raises her legs high and hugs my torso. ;)
Our sex life has gotten so much better now that she is getting hormone replacement therapy. She get testosterone, estrogen pellets every four months. It has been a game changer for our sex life, she is a lot hornier than our early years when we first got married. She gets super wet when we start having foreplay and kissing and my bionic dick just slides in when she is ready for me to penetrate and our sex sessions have been a lot more passionate. She likes my bionic dick to be super hard, so I pump it as much as I can to get in every last squeeze on the pump.
I hope that we keep having sex like this and our health continues to be good.
I think my wife always had low hormones but after a fellow FrankTalk brothers wife got hormone replacement and told us how great it is, I encouraged my wife to get checked and her levels were really low, now they are normal. Love it :)

SWorks


while I am not implanted, using trimix, we are in the same boat. we had a good sex life for 28 years until i started trimix and it changed our lives. now that she has also started her own HRT, it has as you say been a game changer. we went from once a week to 4-5 times a week. our record has been 7 days in a row. that week was a blast but really wore both of us out! we love it as well.
50+ yrs old. married 25+ years. hypothyroid, on TRT. 10+ years ED, viagra, cialis now 50% ineffective. now on trimix 2MG phentolamine/30MG papaverine/20MCG alprostadil

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SWorks17
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Re: Older wives

Postby SWorks17 » Tue Nov 19, 2024 9:03 pm

ape1100 wrote:
SWorks17 wrote:Hey guys, I’m 66 and my wife is 62, I’ve always had a higher sex drive than my wife but we have had a decent sex life over 35 years. We like to spoon fuck , rear vaginal penetration, if her back is hurting, but after we both get our juices flowing we go to missionary, which I can really get deep into her, especially if she raises her legs high and hugs my torso. ;)
Our sex life has gotten so much better now that she is getting hormone replacement therapy. She get testosterone, estrogen pellets every four months. It has been a game changer for our sex life, she is a lot hornier than our early years when we first got married. She gets super wet when we start having foreplay and kissing and my bionic dick just slides in when she is ready for me to penetrate and our sex sessions have been a lot more passionate. She likes my bionic dick to be super hard, so I pump it as much as I can to get in every last squeeze on the pump.
I hope that we keep having sex like this and our health continues to be good.
I think my wife always had low hormones but after a fellow FrankTalk brothers wife got hormone replacement and told us how great it is, I encouraged my wife to get checked and her levels were really low, now they are normal. Love it :)

SWorks


while I am not implanted, using trimix, we are in the same boat. we had a good sex life for 28 years until i started trimix and it changed our lives. now that she has also started her own HRT, it has as you say been a game changer. we went from once a week to 4-5 times a week. our record has been 7 days in a row. that week was a blast but really wore both of us out! we love it as well.


Niiiice Ape1100,
I'm an avid road bike cyclist and at 66, 4 times in a row wore me out. :D
I hope that we can try for 6 or 7 times :!: :lol: :lol: :lol: I might need to use some Lance Armstrong juice to make it through that type of marathon :lol:
Keep on banging Ape ;)

SWorks
Age 66, Garden Ridge Texas, Progressive ED after Boston Scientific Rezum procedure for benign enlarged prostate 19 May 21, AMS LGX 18 w 3cm rear tips installed 5 Nov 2021 by Dr Shane Barney, Brooke Army Medical Center, San Antonio, Texas, Married 36 years

ape1100
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Re: Older wives

Postby ape1100 » Wed Nov 20, 2024 7:09 am

SWorks17 wrote:
Niiiice Ape1100,
I'm an avid road bike cyclist and at 66, 4 times in a row wore me out. :D
I hope that we can try for 6 or 7 times :!: :lol: :lol: :lol: I might need to use some Lance Armstrong juice to make it through that type of marathon :lol:
Keep on banging Ape ;)

SWorks


thanks. here's to all of us keepin on banging!!!!
50+ yrs old. married 25+ years. hypothyroid, on TRT. 10+ years ED, viagra, cialis now 50% ineffective. now on trimix 2MG phentolamine/30MG papaverine/20MCG alprostadil


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