Wife’s sexual development over a long term relationship

[Dan1234]

How has your wife’s sexual appetite changed over the years (better or worse)
How experienced was she when you first met?
How have her preferences changed?
What has she learned to like?
What has surprised sexually you over the term of your relationship?
Who usually initiates sex, and how?
How often do you have sex of some kind?
How has age changed your sexual relationship?

[Rider1400]

How has your wife’s sexual appetite changed over the years (better or worse)
How experienced was she when you first met?
How have her preferences changed?
What has she learned to like?
What has surprised sexually you over the term of your relationship?
Who usually initiates sex, and how?
How often do you have sex of some kind?
How has age changed your sexual relationship?

I was my wife’s first,40 years ago
Used to want it 3-4 times a week- now once a week
We now have sex once on weekends. Just because life is so busy. We usually set aside one nite for us.
She has learned to like many positions, prostate play with me.
Surprises me that sex just isn’t as important any more to her. Feel like she is in it for me. She’s really good at it though just too busy to stop and enjoy it like we used to.
I always initiate sex. Tell her tonight’s the night or plan a date which always leads to sex.
PIV sex once on weekends. Mid week she gets me off however she chooses, usually manually with some oral. Lots of prostate play. My favorite. Doesn’t complain about it though.
Age has slowed us down. I really think when we she retires in a couple years she might actually have a renewed desire.

[SWorks17]

How has your wife’s sexual appetite changed over the years (better or worse)
How experienced was she when you first met?
How have her preferences changed?
What has she learned to like?
What has surprised sexually you over the term of your relationship?
Who usually initiates sex, and how?
How often do you have sex of some kind?
How has age changed your sexual relationship?

I was my wife’s first,40 years ago
Used to want it 3-4 times a week- now once a week
We now have sex once on weekends. Just because life is so busy. We usually set aside one nite for us.
She has learned to like many positions, prostate play with me.
Surprises me that sex just isn’t as important any more to her. Feel like she is in it for me. She’s really good at it though just too busy to stop and enjoy it like we used to.
I always initiate sex. Tell her tonight’s the night or plan a date which always leads to sex.
PIV sex once on weekends. Mid week she gets me off however she chooses, usually manually with some oral. Lots of prostate play. My favorite. Doesn’t complain about it though.
Age has slowed us down. I really think when we she retires in a couple years she might actually have a renewed desire.

Rider, try to persuade her to go to a neighborhood wellness clinic that does hormone replacement.
Don’t go to one of the fancy places, ask around.
I talked my wife into getting her hormones checked two years ago. She started with testosterone cream but it didn’t work, you have to remember to put it on and you can’t do any workouts because sweating will affect the absorption of the cream.
Not too long after that she started getting the pellet implanted in her buttocks area every four months and boom, she was a lot more horny and we started have sex 3 to 4 times a week and sometimes brunch sex! Lol
I usually still initiated but every once in awhile, she would say get ready I’m horny.
According to my wife, she said it wakes everything up down there.

Good luck brother,
Your Bionic Brother in Texas
SWorks

[Martin6469]

Agree with SWorks. My wife, age 81, gets hormone replacement therapy from a gynecologist and is as interested in sex and gets as wet as a young woman.

[Rider1400]

How has your wife’s sexual appetite changed over the years (better or worse)
How experienced was she when you first met?
How have her preferences changed?
What has she learned to like?
What has surprised sexually you over the term of your relationship?
Who usually initiates sex, and how?
How often do you have sex of some kind?
How has age changed your sexual relationship?

I was my wife’s first,40 years ago
Used to want it 3-4 times a week- now once a week
We now have sex once on weekends. Just because life is so busy. We usually set aside one nite for us.
She has learned to like many positions, prostate play with me.
Surprises me that sex just isn’t as important any more to her. Feel like she is in it for me. She’s really good at it though just too busy to stop and enjoy it like we used to.
I always initiate sex. Tell her tonight’s the night or plan a date which always leads to sex.
PIV sex once on weekends. Mid week she gets me off however she chooses, usually manually with some oral. Lots of prostate play. My favorite. Doesn’t complain about it though.
Age has slowed us down. I really think when we she retires in a couple years she might actually have a renewed desire.

Rider, try to persuade her to go to a neighborhood wellness clinic that does hormone replacement.
Don’t go to one of the fancy places, ask around.
I talked my wife into getting her hormones checked two years ago. She started with testosterone cream but it didn’t work, you have to remember to put it on and you can’t do any workouts because sweating will affect the absorption of the cream.
Not too long after that she started getting the pellet implanted in her buttocks area every four months and boom, she was a lot more horny and we started have sex 3 to 4 times a week and sometimes brunch sex! Lol
I usually still initiated but every once in awhile, she would say get ready I’m horny.
According to my wife, she said it wakes everything up down there.

Good luck brother,
Your Bionic Brother in Texas
SWorks

Wife has been on cream for about a year with little noticeable effects. Just last week I insisted she gets some blood work and see if it’s working. Promises she will!

[SWorks17]

I was my wife’s first,40 years ago
Used to want it 3-4 times a week- now once a week
We now have sex once on weekends. Just because life is so busy. We usually set aside one nite for us.
She has learned to like many positions, prostate play with me.
Surprises me that sex just isn’t as important any more to her. Feel like she is in it for me. She’s really good at it though just too busy to stop and enjoy it like we used to.
I always initiate sex. Tell her tonight’s the night or plan a date which always leads to sex.
PIV sex once on weekends. Mid week she gets me off however she chooses, usually manually with some oral. Lots of prostate play. My favorite. Doesn’t complain about it though.
Age has slowed us down. I really think when we she retires in a couple years she might actually have a renewed desire.

Rider, try to persuade her to go to a neighborhood wellness clinic that does hormone replacement.
Don’t go to one of the fancy places, ask around.
I talked my wife into getting her hormones checked two years ago. She started with testosterone cream but it didn’t work, you have to remember to put it on and you can’t do any workouts because sweating will affect the absorption of the cream.
Not too long after that she started getting the pellet implanted in her buttocks area every four months and boom, she was a lot more horny and we started have sex 3 to 4 times a week and sometimes brunch sex! Lol
I usually still initiated but every once in awhile, she would say get ready I’m horny.
According to my wife, she said it wakes everything up down there.

Good luck brother,
Your Bionic Brother in Texas
SWorks

Wife has been on cream for about a year with little noticeable effects. Just last week I insisted she gets some blood work and see if it’s working. Promises she will!

The pellet is the way to go. Implant and forget for 4 months.

SWorks

[texcal56]

How has your wife’s sexual appetite changed over the years (better or worse)
How experienced was she when you first met?
How have her preferences changed?
What has she learned to like?
What has surprised sexually you over the term of your relationship?
Who usually initiates sex, and how?
How often do you have sex of some kind?
How has age changed your sexual relationship?

Wifey and I have been together 15 years, married for 10.

We met when she was 40 and she was experienced.

We discovered that she likes anal and she can orgasm from anal.

Wifey has learned to swallow cum. She was more of a spitter before we met. I eat a very healthy diet and she now enjoys it.

Wifey is an exhibitionist. We have had sex in many semi public spaces, including many hotel balconies. She often wears sheer tops without a bra for our dinners out. She is still a beautiful woman.

I usually initiate sex 60-70% now, probably 50-50 for first 10 years.

Historically, sex 2-3 times per week. Due to some recent menopausal issues, more blow jobs and less intercourse.

As we have aged, we spend more time cuddling. Lots of fondling. Less intercourse and more oral sex.

[Claywcl]

How has your wife’s sexual appetite changed over the years (better or worse)
How experienced was she when you first met?
How have her preferences changed?
What has she learned to like?
What has surprised sexually you over the term of your relationship?
Who usually initiates sex, and how?
How often do you have sex of some kind?
How has age changed your sexual relationship?

I was my wife’s first,40 years ago
Used to want it 3-4 times a week- now once a week
We now have sex once on weekends. Just because life is so busy. We usually set aside one nite for us.
She has learned to like many positions, prostate play with me.
Surprises me that sex just isn’t as important any more to her. Feel like she is in it for me. She’s really good at it though just too busy to stop and enjoy it like we used to.
I always initiate sex. Tell her tonight’s the night or plan a date which always leads to sex.
PIV sex once on weekends. Mid week she gets me off however she chooses, usually manually with some oral. Lots of prostate play. My favorite. Doesn’t complain about it though.
Age has slowed us down. I really think when we she retires in a couple years she might actually have a renewed desire.

[AKJess]

How has your wife’s sexual appetite changed over the years (better or worse)
How experienced was she when you first met?
How have her preferences changed?
What has she learned to like?
What has surprised sexually you over the term of your relationship?
Who usually initiates sex, and how?
How often do you have sex of some kind?
How has age changed your sexual relationship?

How experienced was she when you first met?
She was very experienced with blowjobs, mutual masturbation, and letting her boyfriends cum between her ass cheeks and tits, but never had intercourse before me.

How have her preferences changed?
Based on some of her relationships before me, she is not into facials. She has always been exploratory, so I am not sure how to better define preferences.

What has she learned to like?
Anal play, mild exhibitionism, and likes to be both dominant and submissive depending on her moods. She loves to be blindfolded and tied up not knowing what I am going to do next with her.

What has surprised sexually you over the term of your relationship?
I wouldn't say over the term of the relationship, but more so early on. That being her strong libido and the need for sex or some form of intimacy almost daily. She also gets great satisfaction from giving me head, she will just do it because she loves it - similar to guy's who will just eat pussy for the enjoyment.

Who usually initiates sex, and how?
We both do. It just happens, once minute we are talking and the next making out. Sometimes she will just walk by not wearing much and I just pull her over and start, she does the same. No real reason to initiate.

How often do you have sex of some kind?
I have answered this before - almost some form daily. Not always penetration. Lot's of quickies for me and then on the weekends the focus is on her for a long session.

How has age changed your sexual relationship?
I wouldn't say age has changed us, but physical/medical issues has. I broke my back in multiple places in 1998. that has caused some limitation on occasion when we are in certain positions - where nerve pain can affect my erection. Then there was the PD I recently went though, both the condition and treatment required us to get creative having sex. On her side, she was diagnosed with endometriosis in her early 40's. Her gyno gave her a choice between a hysterectomy or being induced into early menopause to stop the progression. She opted for menopause. I thought her libido would die out, but she became even more sexual. I think in part because she no longer had periods and was always ready for sex. Fast forward until recently where she started HRT and she now has the occasional period which she is not happy about (she has a string hanging out of her as I write this, LOL), She has also had issues with spontaneous lactation, likely cause by HRT, some other meds she was taking and the nipple stimulation I gave her. That has caused some issues, but nothing serious.