Sex toys

[WestLad]

The use of sex toys crops up here and there, but I thought it might be interesting to find out members’ preferences.

1. Do you use toys together? Does she use them on her own?
2. Regularly? Occasionally? How often?
3. What kinds of toys do you have?
4. What was your first toy?
5. What is / Which are your favourite(s) ?
6. What is / Which are her favourite(s) ? (To use on her)
7. Which Toys are most effective for her?
8. Does she need to use a toy to climax?

My answers below….

1. We use them together.
When I traveled and stayed away for work a lot, she ‘flew solo’….

2. We use them regularly (at least once a week)

4. What kinds of toys do you have?

a. Dildo #1 (same size as me)
b. Dildo #2 (extra large)
c. Black G-Spot Rabbit
d. G-Spot vibrator
e. Rosebud ‘clit sucker’
f. Lelo wand
g. Mains powered ‘Magic Wand’
h. Standard ‘bullet’ vibrator

Both Dildos are silicone and flexible. There are times when she likes me to be rough with her, so the hard plastic ones are out of the question. She is very penetration oriented, which is good for me as I I like to use those toys on her, as well as enjoying watching her.

The clit sucker takes a while to get her to orgasm, but when it does it’s very intense.

The Magic Wand is extremely powerful at the higher speeds, and she will use it on me (if I can’t cum in any of the usual ways….). She finds it too much if it used directly on her clit, unless it’s at a low speed.

5. What was your first toy?

From memory (it was a long time ago) a Rabbit.

6. What is / Which are your favourite(s) ?

Dildo #1 / Dildo #2. (I love the visuals….)

7. What is / Which are her favourite(s) ?

Her black G-Spot Rabbit
Standard ‘bullet’ vibrator

8. She can cum with all of our Toys.
The Wand / Rabbit / Bullet vibrators will make her orgasm quickest.

9. She reaches orgasm very easily, so she doesn’t need a toy, but they add ‘fun to our activities.


If you have questions to add, please feel free….

[Claywcl]

We use sex toys regularly! My wife is conservative so I have to convince her “ try it you will like it” but usually she likes it! She is a bit reluctant with tge dildo I bought her but I think that is because I bought on too big. I bought her a “ clit sucker”. She was reluctant at first, but after she tried it she loves it! Now she routinely asks me to use it on her! I still can’t get hard but tge clit sucker give her screaming orgasms! She has alway been a screamer when she orgasms! I love it!

[Scott59]

How did you convince her to try?

[cbinspok]

traveling w toys? airport checks ? hows that handled ?
I like my Ved and have a verity of cock rings and a anal vibrating remote device, rarely use it though, solo mostly.

[AKJess]

traveling w toys? airport checks ? hows that handled ?
I like my Ved and have a verity of cock rings and a anal vibrating remote device, rarely use it though, solo mostly.

You can put them in either your check-in or carry-on. My wife does it all the time. If you are concerned with privacy, put them in your checked bags. They see it all the time.

[LGXDownunder]

traveling w toys? airport checks ? hows that handled ?...

No problem. We often pack a small bullet vibrator, cock rings, lube etc in carry on bags and have taken bigger items.
I took a full sized penis pump once. Maybe they see them on the x-ray machine and have a giggle, who knows.

[LGXDownunder]

1. Do you use toys together? Does she use them on her own?

I use them on her. She doesn't do any solo play to my knowledge.
Sex three times a week seems to be enough for her.

2. Regularly? Occasionally? How often?

Always as part of foreplay.

3. What kinds of toys do you have?

Too many to list but most we no longer use.

4. What was your first toy?

No idea but probably a vibrator of some description.

5. What is / Which are your favourite(s) ?

I still occasionally use a cock ring and enjoy wearing one.
I also use a strong bullet vibrator for solo play at times and that works well for intense orgasms.

6. What is / Which are her favourite(s) ? (To use on her)

I like using any type of vibrator on her as I know it's the only way she can cum.
We used to enjoy the large AC powered Hitachi Wand but she says it's too intense now.
Her current favourite is a long bullet vibrator powered by 2 AA batteries.
It has a really strong but low rumbling pattern. I try and edge her as slowly as possible into cumming.

7. Which Toys are most effective for her?

Reasonably powerful bullet vibrator.

8. Does she need to use a toy to climax?

These days yes. She enjoys PIV sex but can only climax from vibrator stimulation of her clit.
So I start with that and some finger stimulation of her g spot until I get her to cum intensely.
Then I fuck her long and hard, with her being dominant at times.
Both of which she enjoys and sometimes gets her very close to orgasm.

[I’mJustSayin’]

traveling w toys? airport checks ? hows that handled ?
I like my Ved and have a verity of cock rings and a anal vibrating remote device, rarely use it though, solo mostly.

We travel a good bit, domestic and international, and always with sex toys. Have only been questioned once, at an airport, when I had my wife’s vibrator in my carry on bag. Young TSA agent said “What is this?” I said “It’s a sex toy.” He said “Have a nice vacation.”

Funny story: Boarded a cruise ship and the cabin steward said we needed to report to the ship’s security officer to retrieve our luggage. We had put two bottles of wine in one suitcase, and the cruise line allowed one bottle per passenger, so that was not a problem for us. But there were lots of people picking up luggage from security, including a married couple and their young teen son. Security held up a pair of fuzzy pink handcuffs and said “This is a prohibited item, you can pick it up after the cruise.” Teenager was pretending he didn’t know them, and Dad said “ What can I say, it’s an anniversary cruise.”