Bringing in another

[Pau1pau1]

So after a big argument we had a long sit down chat.
She really misses intercourse.
Europe has recently relaxed its borders to the uk double jabbed , we are going to Spain for long weekend as flights are amazingly cheap at the moment.
There’s a nudist beach we regularly go to .
If she gets hit on I said she can follow it through , I’m hoping if it happens it will keep her satisfied until I can get implanted .
I don’t want this to be a regulars thing and neither does she.
In a way I am a bit excited but also really scared that it wrecks our marriage.
She’s been honest and said toys are not enough, she has looked after me incredibly for the last 12 years.
Her preference is young endowed guys, so hopefully the age gap will stop any real feelings developing , and the fact we live in wales.
Am I mad?

[GoodWood]

Why not use a VED with construction rings or injections to get the hard cock for penetration?
You could likely get through the next 12 months while you save for your implant using those methods.

If you wife is yearning to have penetrating sex with YOU that is the solution, not some other guy.

If you two are turned on by the thought of a third fucking your wife while you can not that is perfectly fine. It’s a common enough fantasy there are thousands of cuckold porn videos on line. It can be a hot fantasy.

Just be clear about what you want and that you are both on board with it. If either of you feel pressured or coerced into it, it could be a mess later.

[silverdude]

I agree with goodwood, this could turn into a "mess." What if your wife doesn't get hit on? Personally I would research and experiment every solution, before having another man have sex with my wife. Like i stated before, in another marriage my wife desired the swinging life style, then she became jealous, and it turned to a divorce, but i was happy for the divorce as we were not compatible anyways.

I haven't read your history of experiments, but I would try other options. I believe in free will, and the choice is always yours. There are many on this site that have researched ED. We all have fantasies, however are they realistic???

I also saw one fellow on this site asking if someone would send him trimix to Europe. That is an interesting request.

[AmansinCali]

PaulPaul why haven't you tried injections? Can't you get them in Wales?

The injections have been a God send for my wife and I, yes, it is unnatural and not spontaneous, but believe me the skin time is well worth it, there is nothing like skin contact in your most private areas. It is still unappealing when I think about injecting, but knowing the reward wipes all hesitancy away..

If you can get the injections I highly recommend them. Your wife will thank you and you will thank yourself.

[Pau1pau1]

Hi I tried caverject and invicorp it just produced a massive chubby. Even at 60 mg.
Anyway the deed is done. We went to veraplaya in Spain , it’s a massive nudist resort .
Cut a long story short , she brought a young lad back to our room who was hung.
I decided I didn’t want to watch so sat on the balcony .
I could here them for about 20 mins.
The young lad left and we went for a meal , my wife thanked me and told me she loved me and that it was a itch she couldn’t scratch with toys etc.
The next day he came round before we left and same senario.
She promised not to get his number and we have returned home.
She’s in a much better mood and says she is looking forward to me getting implanted .
I may get a loan and bring the surgery forward as it Gunna take another 9 months to save up.
I know she loves me and has taken great care of me over the yrs, hopefully this was just a gift I could give her and eventually we will work out a new sex life once implanted

[Lost Sheep]

Congratulations on a fine holiday and successfully allowing your wife to enjoy a good romp.

My best wishes to you.

Taking a loan sounds like a good idea (especially before interest rates increase). Budget carefully. You do not want to undergo a repossession!)

[gpa2702]

Can relate to your situation. I have used Viagra and VED with some success and Wife is supportive of my ED but at the same time does not expect a Participation Ribbon while having intercourse. My job is to provide her a Home Run (Orgasm) every time. That said, I turned to a wearable prosthesis called NonMedErect that keeps me in the game with full body contact and provides her the ~ 100% Home Run, essentially works until removed. I have been able to orgasm as well from pressure points.

Could be an alternative while waiting for implant.

Keep swinging the Bat!

[68CatFan]

You're story makes my stomach turn. What an awful wife. That's very selfish of her to have sex while you can't. You're temporarily out of order so she should be too. That's what a marriage is all about. You go through the good and the tough times TOGETHER. She loves you yet has sex with another guy to scratch an itch???? Yeah right.

[abhishek26]

You're story makes my stomach turn. What an awful wife. That's very selfish of her to have sex while you can't. You're temporarily out of order so she should be too. That's what a marriage is all about. You go through the good and the tough times TOGETHER. She loves you yet has sex with another guy to scratch an itch???? Yeah right.

sorry but have to agree with this one!

[silverdude]

NON MED ERECT? Thank you for the info....may help some fellows on this site.

I sincerely hope your marriage doesn't turn into a disaster, Hope that you can save for implant! Best wishes to you!!!