Sex toys

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
Pedi10
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Re: Sex toys

Postby Pedi10 » Sun Apr 07, 2024 5:01 pm

Thanks forthe information.

Old Guy
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Re: Sex toys

Postby Old Guy » Tue May 21, 2024 12:10 pm

Don't forget about guys toys too! I have 2 different sleeves, one rotates and thrusts, the other just thrusts.
The rotating one unfortunately is no longer for sale. It has several rows of soft nubs. It rotates in three speeds with a slight up and down motion. There are ten different patterns it rotates through with a push of the button. That one keeps me on the edge as long as I can tolerate if I change speeds or pattern. When I'm ready high speed does the trick.
The thrusting sleeve has ten speeds of up and down movement, up to 400 strokes a minute! The sleeve is a formed tube, shaped with places to create more contact. On slow speeds I can last a long time in it. Once I get close to top speed it doesn't take very long to let go.
Both of these are almost hands free except for pushing the buttons. I like to lay sideways and prop the toy on a towel.
Check eBay or Amazon for toys. Both have a nice selection for male or female.
I still say the sex swing has been the best purchase so far. Between my bad back and the wife's bad knee it has been a life saver for our intimate times. We have the swing height set so her pussy is the same height as my dick. I can pump in her or I can swing the swing to make her pump on my dick. We have a short stool I'll sit on that puts my face in front of her pussy for oral action. The only thing with a swing is you do need a sturdy place to hang it. I've used our utility room where the beams are exposed. Don't want it to fall in the midst of action. Occasionally the wife will sit me in the swing and suck or stroke me. :D
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Old Guy
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Re: Sex toys

Postby Old Guy » Thu Aug 01, 2024 4:26 pm

Back again to talk about my newest toys.
The wife really likes me to suck on her nipples, so I bought a toy that does that. It has a round cup and super suction power with a fake tongue inside. Turn it on the suction starts. Sucks the boob into the cup in three different suction patterns from little to its sucking the boob off my chest! Then start the tongue thing and it licks up and down. Multiple patterns of tongue movement and vibrations. Used it on myself and holy crap thought I was gonna lose one tit. Once I figured out the patterns it was a fun toy to use even for me. I have one very sensitive nipple. One thing is use lube because it doesn't take long to make a nipple sore. As a bonus the toy also comes with an oblong cup designed for the pussy. Wife won't try that one, LOL.
I have one nipple that has been inverted forever it seems like. Found a mini nipple sucker designed to pull the nipple out into more of an erect state. Used it for three days on and off, about 30 minutes at a time. My nipple is now flat, but a few minutes getting sucked with the toy will make it stick out!
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mrksman
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Re: Sex toys

Postby mrksman » Mon Aug 05, 2024 1:42 pm

Old Guy - Thanks for the update. Does your wife like your new toy? What is it called?
Age 58, happily married over 38 years. T levels fluctuate but often on the low end. Cialis (Tadalafil) was working great but not so much lately. Same with Viagra. Use a Vacurect VED with a PosTVac Mach Ring as a backup.

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Re: Sex toys

Postby Old Guy » Sat Aug 10, 2024 8:07 am

mrksman wrote:Old Guy - Thanks for the update. Does your wife like your new toy? What is it called?


The wife can take it or leave it, she likes the real tongue the best. I like it on my sensitive nipple, for a while. It doesn't take long to make a nipple sore, even with a little lube.

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Howling8
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Re: Sex toys

Postby Howling8 » Thu Nov 28, 2024 5:39 pm

My wife has 6 dildo's, two of them that spurt cum. We also got fake cum (I have retrograde and she misses it) and play games. Last one was with nipple clamps that she loves, and the dildos stuck to the walls with different pants taped on the wall.. she likes to pretend she's getting fucked by three guys and lots of cum on her face. She has two little vibrators that send her too, butt plugs and wands. I watch and film it and jerk off till I come in her mouth. She's made a 70 yr old sailor very happy while waiting for my revision. I'm using VED with rings and PT141. I get a nice hard on good enough for penetrative sex if I stand up behind her. Don't know if I'll be able to come like that but we'll find out tomorrow night.
Thanks
67 yr old, married 20 yrs,
Cialis, Trimix since 2004
MIA in 2004
Implanted by Dr Guise on 10/28/21
Pre-op: 6.3" length 6" girth
14 mos post op: 6.5" lento and 5.75 girth on shaft and 6" at the base

scharff
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Re: Sex toys

Postby scharff » Fri Dec 06, 2024 10:03 am

The We Vibe is a lot of fun. I've had my friend go out in public and I do her like that. It's fun at a bar having a drink with her! For me, she likes using one of the pocket pussies. It's more like a fleshlight. She'll suck me hard then use the toy on me like giving me a handjob. But she ends up letting me use it on myself while describing to her how it feels. She climaxes before I do like that. She likes anal beads. Actually we both do. She likes to see me in a cock ring. I'm waxed down there so even the rubber rings are easy to use. Sometimes nipple clamps for her but they have to be the rubber ones. She wants pressure but not pain.

Howling8
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Re: Sex toys

Postby Howling8 » Fri Dec 20, 2024 10:15 pm

thedriver wrote:Over the years the wifey has a collection 2nd to none, all sorts of toys from vibrators, stimulators, normal realistic dildos, to Bad Dragons dildos that attach to her 200 RPM remote control fucking machine that she loves to put on shows with, different lubes, collars, nipple clamps, VED's for pussy lip engorgement, and the list go's on.
Bottom line,,,,, don't be afraid to experiment, the wifey needs something to fill in for when the IPP's break down.



My wife’s libido came roaring back after a 4 yr disappearance.. role playing with me and two dildos placed strategically so she could suck and fuck them while sucking me

I have retrograde or dry orgasm from some abdominal surgery so she misses the cum. So she asks me to get some fake cum which she went crazy over asking for ten different facials in one night She’s got vibrators, dildos that squirt cum, nipple clamps, collar and a leash It’s wild and the disappeared because it triggered some memories and she had an alcoholic breakdown over it Ended up she got roofied and raped in march of99 by a predator rapist. Hopefully lots of therapy will help her In the meantime I have the memory of that wild three week period
Thanks
67 yr old, married 20 yrs,
Cialis, Trimix since 2004
MIA in 2004
Implanted by Dr Guise on 10/28/21
Pre-op: 6.3" length 6" girth
14 mos post op: 6.5" lento and 5.75 girth on shaft and 6" at the base

RJ_in_Pa
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Re: Sex toys

Postby RJ_in_Pa » Sat Dec 21, 2024 7:52 am

We have a few vibrators that we keep in the end table drawer next to the bed. Once when we had a bunch of people spending the night, we had our daughter and son-in-law sleep in our bed. About the time they were getting ready to hop in bed, my wife in a panic said to me “What if they the find toys in the end table? “. I told her “if they want to use them, let ‘em”. :D
64, Radical Prostatectomy in 2023, pills did nothing. Currently on Trimix with great success.


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