I've been married to the same lovely lady for almost 47 years. When we were young everything worked well and we did whatever we liked. The effects of childbirth, pre and post menopausal symptoms and other health issues over the years have changed both what works for us and what is possible. My wife could always orgasm multiple times from PIV sex when we were younger. She would usually want me to go again, and I'd have to stall with foreplay until I could recharge and get another erection. As the years rolled on she eventually became unable to orgasm from penile penetration. She has told me that she still enjoys the feeling of being fucked, but is unable to climax from it. Before I had my prostatectomy I could sometimes get her close with a lot of hard pounding, which she loved, but post op my erectile function was zero and I could no longer do that (now I can again but that's another story
). We have done oral in the past but it got to a point where she found it too intense when I would stimulate her clit with my tongue. But she really gets off with a vibrator and for many years we have incorporated that into our foreplay. As well as using my fingers I make her cum intensely by using the vibrator on her clit, which is her favourite part of sex. She gets extremely wet from the combination of finger stimulation, vibration and some dirty talk. I often have to withhold the vibrator stimulation to extend her pleasure and prevent her climaxing too quickly. She has some back and hip issues these days, and we are limited in positions that are comfortable for her. We mainly do standing doggy, which works for her and is great for me. After my recent implant I'm now almost free of discomfort and starting to enjoy sex again. That has revealed a new problem (kinda) - I can stay erect forever but it can take me a very long time to reach orgasm. I'm really liking that but my wife doesn't have the same level of stamina as me, and the back problem in particular can start to bother her. So I'm currently having several breaks mid-fuck to let her recover, during which time I use some finger stimulation to maintain her pleasure and keep her pussy wet. Sometimes I'll also add a few more pumps to my implant. That seems to be working for us but I'll keep experimenting until the implant becomes fully broken in.
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