Oral wife

[texcal56]

It is very important to have open communication on sex between husband and wife. My wife and I started dating when she was 45 and I was 55, so neither one of us was new to sex. After discovering we were sexually compatible on our first sex date (our sexaversary is 3/17 and we celebrate it every year!), we spent a lot of time talking about we liked and didn’t like about our past experiences with sex. It is important to know what she likes and doesn’t like and what turns her on and turns her off. She and I are willing to try almost anything once and trust each other. She knows l love to have my cock sucked. She doesn’t suck me to orgasm every day, but my cock is in her mouth 4 or 5 days a week. My wife loves foot rubs and I hate feet. But I rub her feet 4 or 5 times a week. Talk to your partner and listen to your partner. More good things will happen if you do.

[Germaican]

It is very important to have open communication on sex between husband and wife

That's the best advice. I've always loved to eat pussy. From when I was 16 I was just drawn to it. On the other hand I didn't ever expect any of my (numerous) partners to return the favour. Some tried, but it didn't work. For a long time I even thought I just can't come that way at all. My first wife of 11 years managed to make me cum one time, but her jaw was almost dropping off from exhaustion. Then, after separation, I had that 4 month relationship with a former sex worker in 2017 and fuck me!, she made me cum in her mouth in about 3 minutes. Best oral sex I ever had and she could repeat that as often as she wanted. That girl loved to give oral.
I realised it was never about me not being able to cum that way.
My second wife now, and hopefully my last partner, we're together since 2019, she is not that great at oral sex (yet). She only did it twice to someone before we met. I told her very much from start that it's not that important to me.
But she wants to do it and she wants to please me that way. Just like I enjoy feeling her legs squeeze my face when she cums.
We are talking about it and when she does it I tell her what feels good and what she should not do. She can definitely get me there by now, even with my sloppy dick. She is just not ready yet to take the load in her mouth. Maybe that will change when I'm implanted and she gets a hard piece of dick in her mouth.

Long story short. Everyone has to enjoy what they're doing to do it good and it's ok to not like certain things. E.g. I like rimming, the missus doesn't. Result: It's not happening.