How do you give your woman an orgasm?

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
Kodixx
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Re: How do you give your woman an orgasm?

Postby Kodixx » Thu Sep 17, 2026 5:26 pm

This isn't the whole answer, but it sure helps !

Get a Magic Wand vibrator - it's big, but it's the "mother of all" vibrators. 7000 rpm and waterproof. Produces Richter scale vibration :)
Its known to be one of the best for giving her orgasms, fast, by vibrating so hard it stimulates everything down there like no other.
When she's having problems getting to the big O, use it to get her off during foreplay. And for lots more fun it also works between the two of you in missionary and cowgirl positions if you're at a 45 degree angle. Or any position where you can hold it against her down there. It's an interesting ride :)
She gets orgasms.
And reliable fast orgasms do wonders for getting her "on board".

Bonus points : combine the vibrator with warming lube for even more "explosive" results.
We like "ZANGO Wicked Aqua Heat Water Based Personal Lubricant 60ml" (Amazon).
You might even find that when PIV the warming lube does something for your level of sensation also :)

- Chuck
Feb 2025 58yo, 38 w/ greatest wife ever
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) pre-op L:7", post-op @ 9 mo L: 6.5=>7.0" G: 5.5=>5.75"
2wks pain, cycling/sex @ 7wks, minor pain until 10wks, felt like 'new normal' sex @ 16wks

1sfman
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Location: Central Illinois

Re: How do you give your woman an orgasm?

Postby 1sfman » Thu Sep 17, 2026 7:18 pm

My wife almost always "warms up" using a vibrator before PIV sex. Her tits are very sensitive, so I get a lot of tit play while she warms up. She says that gets her really revved up and PIV is much more pleasurable. Does she come via PIV only? Absolutely. Since I have my Bionic dick now, I can keep on going as long as she wants. Last time she had 3 organisms via PIV in addition to the warm up vibrator. Years ago, I ended up not being able to hold it back and would cum many times right after she got past the first PIV organism. Age has fixed that problem with the sensitivity drop I have now compared to years ago.

But, we are all different in what we experience. I have no doubt many women cannot have a PIV organism without assistance, clit stroking or a vibrator, maybe something else I don't know about. But, what ever floats your boat, go for it. For me, I'm so extremely pleased that I can stay in the game for as long as she wants me to. And after 58 years together, we're both still in the game and enjoying the hell out of it.
75 YO (1951). Happily married since 1972 (A couple since 1968). ED since age 60. Viagra, then Cialis, Trimix/Quadmix and VED. AMS 700 CX, 21cm + 1cm RTE left side, MS pump & 100cc reservoir. Implanted using Infrapubic procedure Jan 21, 2026.


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