Blue balls???

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retired65
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Blue balls???

Postby retired65 » Thu Oct 05, 2023 10:38 am

Had a prostatectomy back in 2015, implant 2017. No sex since 2022 masturbated a few times (wife thinks it's sick to masturbate) anyhow last couple of days I had what if feels like "Blue Balls", question: Is it possible to have BB after a prostatectomy???
66 years old, married 36 years. ED since 2006, diagnosed with prostate cancer 07/2014. Prostatectomy 07/27/2015, Coloplast Titan implanted 02/15/2018 by Dr. J. Greenfield.

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Re: Blue balls???

Postby Scott59 » Thu Oct 05, 2023 11:11 am

yes

Jayguy
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Re: Blue balls???

Postby Jayguy » Thu Oct 05, 2023 2:21 pm

Epididymal hypertension (blue balls) is common shortly after a prostatectomy. Given how long it has been since yours, perhaps you should check with your urologist.
Birth Year 1959, Happily married to wife since 1987. On TRT since age 45, started sildenafil at age 48. Had lifesaving abdominal surgery at 61 with lost erectile function following surgery. Started trimix in January 2023 at age 63.

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AKJess
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Re: Blue balls???

Postby AKJess » Thu Oct 05, 2023 3:08 pm

Jayguy wrote:Epididymal hypertension (blue balls) is common shortly after a prostatectomy. Given how long it has been since yours, perhaps you should check with your urologist.

Good recommendation to see a Urologist. There are a couple of underlying medical conditions that could cause your symptoms. If it is in fact EH, the situation should resolve, but things like epididymitis, kidney stones or varicoceles could mimic EH.
56, married 32 years to an amazing woman, BPH, PD (47deg down to ~29), current Xiaflex treatment with Pentoxifylline & Cialis. Penile modeling with Restore X. Occasional ED triggered from pain response during intercourse.

Old Guy
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Re: Blue balls???

Postby Old Guy » Thu Oct 05, 2023 5:05 pm

Yes. If I don't empty my boys at least once a week they feel swollen and get sore. However, the soreness is not what I call pain. If you are having pain it may be good to see a urologist.
BTW- Masturbation is not sick or gross.
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