Hello all

[Miltie]

Hello All
I'm almost 60 years old,diabetic type 2 for about 15 years
My wife past away 2 years ago.
We probably didn’t have sex for about 2 years before she past due to my softness.
It has been quite a new experience being a widower.
I never knew that such sadness existed.
I dropped 30 pounds in three months.
I have been trying to move on for a while.
Here is is the run down.
My Testosterone level about a year and a half ago was 413 which doc said was on the low side.
The doc put me on blood pressure pills, cholesterol pills, and antidepression pills.
Them he added Levitra 10mg, then Levitra 20mg which did nothing then we tried Cialis 20mg.
I was having dizzy spells from all this and vision at times turned white.
I miss my beer, cant do more than 1 on Cialis cause it gives me a headche.
Back when I was single, drinking was a big part of pickin up the ladies.
In fact I always had a belly full that was foreplay lol.
My BP went down to 106/72 at times. The doc said only take one BP pill instead of 2.
No change still too low I thought, so I quit taking them and cholesterol ( which was only a little high) pills and the antidepression pills.
The dizzy spells and occasional white vision went away.
I regained the weight I lost. I'm a little fat lol, but this is where I feel best.
My BP is normal now and the Cialis 20mg works great at times but sometimes doesn’t do the trick.
If I take these to often I get backache and headaches.
I decided to try a pump but wasn’t going to shell out over a hundred bucks. I saw an example of using a fish tanksiphon vacuum.
I bought it at a Petco for 15 bucks.Its made by Aqueon for a fish tank 15 to 55 gallons.
It’s a 10 inches clear cylinder and a clear 3/4 inch clear tube.
The cylinder is only 2 inches in diameter it needed to be wider.
I put it on and sucked on the tube, nothing happened.
Then when semi erect tried again and wow full erection in less then a minute.
( I took a Cialis 20mg 2 days ago)
It took about 3 or 4 puffs with delays in between on the tube to bring it up.
Only problem was if I released the vacuum at anytime erection went down fast, real fast.
This sounds like something I read about here when blood wont stay in penis I forgot what you called it.
So today I bought some cock rings to see if they will help.
I will let you know.
All comments welcomed.
Thanks.
Oh I forgot how I found this site.

[hockey]

Miltie:
Welcome to the site!
You well find all the answers you could possibly want on this site.
Everyone here wil want to help you out.
You may want to look into some cock rings to help help your pump.
If hey fail It may be time to have a talk with your urologist.
Venous blood loss can be measured and is a real simple test.
It is called a "Doppler" test.
A lot of guys are using injections of trimix and getting hard wood for up to 4 hours.
I failed all of those tests and have made the transition to the bionic world.
You are young enough that you would enjoy having the implant and be ready at that drop
of a hat.
I point out all of these options because depression is not what any man should need
to deal with. There are solutions that will help you physically and emotionally. Just don't give up looking for them.
Please join in the chat room whenever you can. You can direct answers there.
Best of luck to you and welcome aboard!