Desperately searching for answers

[ED2013]

Keep using viagra if it is working.

[Flannigan]

Keep using viagra if it is working.

I am still using it but nearly as frequently. I can only use it maybe once or at the most twice a week. I really pay the price though for days afterwards. I am now using Androgel to increase my T in hopes that will solve some of the problem. I definitely notice that my junk is hard for what seems like most of the night which is good news. However, I can't seem to transfer it into the bedroom yet. I think most of my problem is now psychological. I just never imagined getting a freaking boner would be so difficult. It's really frustrating as hell when I have a smoking hot girlfriend that wants cock all the time. Gotta get this fixed asap !

Cheers
Flannigan

[newtoed]

Dear Friend,
Same story as yours. Overnight ED divorce and tons of Levitra in my case. No side effect, great life. Then rectal cancer and zero spontaneous erection. On Trimix since February with very active sex Life again. I see about 6 girls. I think we men have a misconception: we think that our job is to satisfy women(guess what? Your mom, a woman told you that).
Women tell me this all the time that they prefer a guy who is in it for his own satisfaction to a guy who desperately does everything to please her. I like to please women like any man, but I do whatever I want with them. Sometimes I just look at them naked, massage them for joy, finger them, eat them and penetrate if that's what I want. Many time refuse to give them what they want. That makes them more attracted and turned on. Use a lot of toys and props. Sometimes I decide not to cum for the heck of it.
We are the man, we move mountains, land on the moon and can't handle a woman to our will?
Just my 2 cents.

[Flannigan]

Newtoed, thanks for the reply. I agree. It's important that we work hard at still maintaining our manhood when you are fighting ED. It's very easy to get down on yourself and lose your self esteem. Both myself and my girlfriend like to please each other. Neither one of us are selfish but I know what you are talking about. Most women want their man to take charge and that is definitely the case with my girlfriend. It's kind of hard to do when your dick doesn't work though.

She thought I was the man for years when I was secretly using the Viagra until I could not take the side effects anymore and I had to come clean. It was a major blow to both of us but I know she loves me and is trying her best to work with me through all this bullshit. Through it all I still wear the pants and I refuse to let this get me down. If I lose my self confidence then she will lose confidence in me as well and their is more to life and relationships then just sex.

I am however looking for answers to this f...d up problem. I had a very normal sex life with no injuries and in good health until my mid 40's. The way I see it there should be no reason for me to have this problem unless there is something wrong with my body that I don't know about. I have decided to start by getting my T level back up and see what happens.

How long have you been using the Trimix ? I have heard mostly great things about it. Did the Levitra stop working for you ? Did you have bad side effects from the Levitra ?

Cheers
Flannigan

[newtoed]

Trimix is great. Don't even think about implant for many years yet. Sounds like you'll need a mild version like 30/10/1 and a very low dose like 5 units. Get an Autoject right away. Doing it freehand is unpredictable and a little painful.
You can use Trimix 3-4 a week. You will have 2-3 hours of rock hard erections so you can wear out your girl so bad she will beg you to stop and can't even look at your dick till next time lol.
Ask me any questions man!