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[highlander]

Hi new to group lot interesting things to read in this forum..I am 66 last few years My sex drive has gone way down..I allways had high sex drive like most...All so when i have sex i have know control over when i cum ..I just cum with no warning,,don t seam get as hard any more..talk to doc last prostate check up He said it s perfectly normal for guy in 60 s Just part of getting older. Told me he has same problems and gave me a script for genatic Viagra.. It s does help me get harder but? still no control... He gave me it in doses of 20mg said start with 2 pills if need take more up to 3pills . 2 works fine..do wake up with head ach in morn tho... So i reading on here trying to learn what else i can maybe do or try?? thanks for help and this group

[bldoink]

Welcome to the forum.

It sounds like you're doing pretty good to me.

I'll suggest adding some novelty (sex shop) cock rings to the mix. In your case I'll also suggest some ball rings. You will have to experiment and expect rejects until you find what works for you. I have a fair collection of rejects I haven't pitched for some strange reason. I strongly prefer silicone rings but there are other options some other guys prefer.

As for the ball rings, some guys report that using ball rings that pull down or separate the boys from the rest of your package tends to delay the orgasm. I'd say that's worth a try in your case. I really don't have personal experience with that technique as neither premature ejaculation or early uncontrolled ejaculation has ever been my issue. It turns out the wife likes ball rings so there's that.

Oh yeah, if you decide to try the silicone or similar rings, I strongly recommend some manscaping, if you don't already. It is my painful experience that silicone or rubber rings don't get along well with hair. No need to go for the pre pubescent look but.... You'll figure it out pretty quickly.

Have you had your testosterone level checked? It sounds like something worth having checked in your case. I'm surprised your doctor hasn't checked that if he hasn't yet.

Good luck.

[highlander]

Hi thanks ball rings sound painfull Balls very sensitive...thought bout cock ring tho maybe i ll try one? Wife could care less she seams to of lost her sex drive years ago..Tho she ll enjoy it when we do it But it s a subject she hates talk about...Gets mad when I try.. I do lot spin classes wondered if that affects me..But gym was closed for few months I just walked everyday didn t notice any differance..Told biking can affect getting hard ons?? But thanks for the idears..

[alfa88]

My GP prescribed a low dose Sertraline for premature ejaculation. I split a 50mg pill. I found that a whole pill killed my libido. Getting an implant helped my PE tremendously. I also take a zinc supplement if I feel my libido lagging. BTW welcome.