situational ed?
Posted: Wed Nov 24, 2021 1:20 am
by a_little_deflated
I've had 2 casual hook ups now and my bits wouldn't work either time but i have a "friend " I've known for years, the sex with her is amazing and no dramas. never had a drama with my x. i was anxious going into the 2 hook ups but confident I could satisfy these women, but nothing! how do i get past this?
Re: situational ed?
Posted: Tue Dec 21, 2021 10:20 pm
by Spontaneous1
So you never had "drama" (?) with your ex, does that mean "everything" worked as it should when you were with her? If you now have a friend with no drama, and maybe no pressure, then it's possible you're having some psychological ED. Anxious maybe equals more mental anxiety than you think.