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Hi.

I'm a 64 year-old single male from New Zealand.
Had a groin operation that went wrong - about 5 years ago.
The feeds into one side of my penis obviously aren't working.
Erection half the size it should be ... sexual duration a fraction of what it used to be (surgeons advised that this was likely) ... ejaculate: just a dribble.
It feels like masturbation's gonna be it for me.
I'm too self-conscious to ask anyone out.
I feel lonely in a way I never have before.

Welcome to the forum.

anjouneOK100 wrote:Hi.

I'm a 64 year-old single male from New Zealand.
Had a groin operation that went wrong - about 5 years ago.
The feeds into one side of my penis obviously aren't working.
Erection half the size it should be ... sexual duration a fraction of what it used to be (surgeons advised that this was likely) ... ejaculate: just a dribble.
It feels like masturbation's gonna be it for me.
I'm too self-conscious to ask anyone out.
I feel lonely in a way I never have before.

Wecome to the forum, anjouneOK100. Thanks for sharing your story.

I encourage you to go ahead and ask women out. Just as when many men were young, dating was not a prelude to sex, but just to enjoy the company of a woman/girl.

Just so you don't lose your social skills (and contact with a social circle). When you do regain erectile performance you will find those assets valuable. Besides, you might find other alternative satisfactions.

Where there is life, there is hope.

Hello 58 and 6 months post titan implant. Life is great again. My male ego was severely bruised by not being able to get an erection. Life is awesome now. Gained back my full length and extra girth. Wife’s so pleased with it as well. Living in Florida and happy again.
I had 2 major heart attacks, triple bypass and 4 lower back surgeries in the 5 years before my implant.