Telling future partner about past jelqing and implant

[goose1235]

Hi everyone,

Reposting here for visibility.

Long story short I'm pretty sure I gave myself moderate ED (venous leak) bc of PE/jelqing. I'm young, 26, and you can imagine how much emotional distress I've been through these last few years. What I did was stupid and out of insecurity and exposure to porn, but the past is past. I've grown from this ordeal, and I'm mostly past the point of grieving for myself. I'm ready to move forward. I've decided to get an penile implant as I was diagnosed with venous leak. I can get an alright erection but cannot maintain it without constantly stimulation + it's way worse while standing. Pills do not help.

My final block is psychological.

How can I get over my shame, especially when I get a partner? How do I explain my implant? How do I be totally honest about how I injured myself? I'm honestly very anxious to reveal this past about myself since I feel like I might be looked at with disdain. There are days when I feel like I will never be loved. I'm someone who does not want to hide anything, I do not want to go through life bottled up. Does someone have experience with this?

Thank you

[Bambino09]

Hi everyone,

Reposting here for visibility.

Long story short I'm pretty sure I gave myself moderate ED (venous leak) bc of PE/jelqing. I'm young, 26, and you can imagine how much emotional distress I've been through these last few years. What I did was stupid and out of insecurity and exposure to porn, but the past is past. I've grown from this ordeal, and I'm mostly past the point of grieving for myself. I'm ready to move forward. I've decided to get an penile implant as I was diagnosed with venous leak. I can get an alright erection but cannot maintain it without constantly stimulation + it's way worse while standing. Pills do not help.

My final block is psychological.

How can I get over my shame, especially when I get a partner? How do I explain my implant? How do I be totally honest about how I injured myself? I'm honestly very anxious to reveal this past about myself since I feel like I might be looked at with disdain. There are days when I feel like I will never be loved. I'm someone who does not want to hide anything, I do not want to go through life bottled up. Does someone have experience with this?

Thank you

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[Gt1956]

Goose1235. Do some thinking on two different discussions & then decide which is the best one to have.
1: Explaining to a woman why your dick doesn't work at all. Not fun.
2: Explaining why your dick works better that any boyfriend she has ever had. You'll have to pry her eyes open to even listen to you. Fun.

[Fran4524]

Hi, partner. I am in a case like yours, but pills are working in me. I think it is not necessari to tell your partner if you did jelquing or not. You can tell her/him that in a moment your penis didn't work as always and after the doppler the doctor saw a venous leak. You can explain her/him about venous leak and tell your partner that implant was the only solution. You are not lying to nodoby.