Postby merrix » Tue Dec 08, 2015 5:55 am
Actually I don't agree with the 2/5 cure rate.
Looking at both razor's and oxford's latest posts, they both mention things like:
They are still on pills
without pills it's hit and miss (finishing 3/3 but only stayed really hard 1/3)
etc, etc...
For me, the only definition of a cure is that one can throw away all pills and get a fully hard erection every time which lasts till the end every time. One that allows you to be spontaneous during sex, enabling you to change positions and use whatever pace of our in-and-out that you want.
If one is restricted by ED, as in must hurry up with a lot of friction and cannot take a break in the intercourse to give oral, cannot do all positions, etc, etc - then it is not a cure.
What razor and oxford describes is very similar to what I experience. if they are a 'success', then I am as well. I have noticed a huge improvement. But I am still depending on pills. Without pills it sucks. But with pills, I'd say I get very, very hard basically every time. If i do the positions I know work well, If I don't take too long time for foreplay, If I finish the intercourse rather quickly (approx 5 minutes) - then my dick probably is as good as any dick out there.
But the problem is that it means I am still restricted. I cannot be spontaneous. I need to take my viagra 45 minutes before (20 minutes for Cialis). I cannot do all positions. I cannot go slow and have sex for 30 minutes.
And this is not my definition of cured. Cured is all ED problems are 100% gone. And I still maintain that nobody here has achieved that result. In my opinion, 0/5 = 0% has been cured. 1 has gotten worse, and 4 have seen various degrees of improvement.
However - this is not to say I want to steer people away from the sclero. This is just to set your expectations right. Before sclero, if I would have known what the outcome would be for me, I would probably have been happy with this. I always said to myself, that if the sclero leads to me being able to have good sex with pills, then I am ok with that. And that's basically what happened.
What has changed for me is that i started to really look in to the alternative of an implant. This was not really on my mind before the sclero. I have just changed my base line for what I can accept. When it was really bad before sclero, I would have been happy with what I have today.
Now, I have moved my benchmark for what I am satisified with. Basically I am not interested in an 'improvement'. I am not interested in even thinking about what is an acceptable level of ED for me. I don't want any of it anymore. I want a dick which gets hard and stays hard every time I want to have sex. I want to get this issue off my mind. I don't want to have sexy wife who I know might get horny sometimes and would want to go for a spontaneous quickie. But who will not even try to make it happen because she knows her husband can't make it without pills.
That's why I go for the implant.
But we're all different, and if someone don't think the money is an issue, then just go for it. You may get better results than me, or you may be happy with the same results as I have. You may also refuse to take the step to have an implant, and if so, then sclero is probably the best you can get.
Best of luck to all of you out there.
43 yo, ED forever from VL
Fit and active
Implanted December 2015
Titan XL 24 cm, no RTEs
Dr. Eid
Activated day 13
Sex after 3 weeks
Gained length and girth
So far It works perfectly
Only one advice: Find a world class surgeon