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Hi,

Thanks for having this forum for everyone to come together to talk about our delicate problems.

I’m currently suffering (long time) from low libido, no sexual mood, ED (getting an erection to maintaining an erection), and premature ejaculation. I must add that this has affected me in a bad way mentally as well (through OCD intrusive thoughts) as I start to question myself as a man.

My partner understands and she supports me but it weighs on me heavily.

Im in my thirties and have had all of the relevant blood work and everything appears normal (testosterone and thyroid on the lower side but still within the normal limits).

I went to a specialist and found that I have venous leak and had a cavernosogram to block the leaky veins through venous embolisation. Unfortunately, this was unsuccessful.

The interventional radiologist mentioned that this could have been hereditary. I thought that I may have damaged my penis through aggressive masturbation or penis stretching (known as jelqing).

My penis also feels numb mostly when I touch it, or feels like it’s not even there at times. I can squeeze my PC muscle now and I feel the squeeze below the base of my penis if that helps understand the feeling. It even feels numb when I pee without sounding too graphic like it’s not even there. How is a penis supposed to feel to the touch and how do I know if I have nerve damage)?

Viagra and Cialis do respond and I’m able to achieve an erection, but really hate the side effects.

Is there a regimen you recommend that I start to try and fix my venous leak/ED, increase my Libito and mood, and reduce/eliminate my premature ejaculation without breaking the bank?

Thanks,

JohnRoss

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johnross99 wrote:Hi,

Thanks for having this forum for everyone to come together to talk about our delicate problems.

I’m currently suffering (long time) from low libido, no sexual mood, ED (getting an erection to maintaining an erection), and premature ejaculation. I must add that this has affected me in a bad way mentally as well (through OCD intrusive thoughts) as I start to question myself as a man.

My partner understands and she supports me but it weighs on me heavily.

Im in my thirties and have had all of the relevant blood work and everything appears normal (testosterone and thyroid on the lower side but still within the normal limits).

I went to a specialist and found that I have venous leak and had a cavernosogram to block the leaky veins through venous embolisation. Unfortunately, this was unsuccessful.

The interventional radiologist mentioned that this could have been hereditary. I thought that I may have damaged my penis through aggressive masturbation or penis stretching (known as jelqing).

My penis also feels numb mostly when I touch it, or feels like it’s not even there at times. I can squeeze my PC muscle now and I feel the squeeze below the base of my penis if that helps understand the feeling. It even feels numb when I pee without sounding too graphic like it’s not even there. How is a penis supposed to feel to the touch and how do I know if I have nerve damage)?

Viagra and Cialis do respond and I’m able to achieve an erection, but really hate the side effects.

Is there a regimen you recommend that I start to try and fix my venous leak/ED, increase my Libito and mood, and reduce/eliminate my premature ejaculation without breaking the bank?

Thanks,

JohnRoss

I had very low libido and my urologist put me on 2.5cc Delatestryl every three weeks. He keeps me on the upper end of normal. I am like a horney 18 year old again. My libido is writing cheques my body can't cash...

Larry

johnross99 wrote:

I thought that I may have damaged my penis through aggressive masturbation or penis stretching (known as jelqing).

Your venous leak is caused by jelqing for sure, many guys in this site have it because of those "exercises" and the internet is full of cases of injuries by jelqing just do a search and you will see. Also do you have soft glans?

And that venous leak is what causes your premature ejaculation due to you need a lot of stimulation to get an erection, and because of that at the time you have an erection you are about to cum. This is because in order to get an erection with the venous leakage provoked by jelqing you need so much stimulation that the erection will only come when you are about to cum and that will cause premature ejaculation.

Sadly today there is no cure, the closest thing is the implant.
Try the cock rings as naginati points out


PD: Someone should sue those jelqing forums and their owners, they are making thousands of young people have ED and destroying their lives (our lives) and they deny and dont warn that their exercises cause venous leakage, only in this forum there are dozens of injured guys for those "exercises" and now they (we) need an implant.

Thanks for getting back to me.

I just feel like a complete failure with what I did to my body, and for what, Some nominal gains.

I’ve had two cavernosograms and they have plugged two large venous leaks through using coils and gels but still feel flat.

I just with I could return back to my natural self without using anything else.

I hear that taking Cialis everyday for three months may help rebuild the penis? What are your thoughts on this one?

The doctor also said my venous leak may have been hereditary but I didn’t mention the jelling activities. I also used to hold the head of my penis when I was ejaculating when I misread what was being explained on a different masturbation technique during my teens. Could this have damaged it as well?

How can I increase my oenis sensitivity and get to back to it being normal? How is a penis supposed to feel in a flaccid state from the base, to the shaft, to the head? I find sometimes it feels like skin and plastic although could that be due to not enough blood going in there because of the venous leak or some other nerve damage? I hear that nerve damage repairs itself slowly over a long period of time and specific creams/ointments may help with this one?

So much constantly going through my head.

Can you have sex with meds?

Same story here.
Probably through prone masturbation.
Will go for ultrasound soon.
Has anybody benefited for penile vascularisation/embolization. All I here are failures.

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Meds does make it work. I find Viagra better than Cialis although I’m going to try Cialis for three months daily and see what happens.

I would try the least invasive option first and go for a doppler test, then cavernosogram with embolisation.

I’ve had my second embolisation recently and do feel some oddness/stinging around the area which I’m hoping will subside. It’s only been a week though since my latest procedure.

One question I have for others that have done the same surgery. What happens if the doctors block too many veins with coils and the gel. Can it collapse anything or make ED worse? Does anyone have any studies which state long term risks?

I tried a 10mg tablet of Cialis and found that my erection hangs at the 4:00 mark - meaning that 6:00 would be hanging erect, up, and straight? Does this mean I have some other problem? I also find Viagra gives me a harder erection but not sure where it hangs?

The other thing I have to deal with is premature ejaculation due to all of these problems as when I could get it up, then I would also be in a rush to finish and my body has sort of learned to finish within a minute of intercourse.

In case I’ve confused everyone, if the penks hangs down at the 6 o clock mark, then mine would hang erect at the 9:30 o’clock mark.

I also notice more veins around the penis now.