Don't think I can live like this

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Gavalar09
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Don't think I can live like this

Postby Gavalar09 » Wed Nov 17, 2021 11:34 pm

28 years old and recently finding out I could have VL.

6 months ago I was having good enough sex with my gf, getting hard to porn etc.
Always got hard to porn with no real issue.

The last month, my sex drive and ability to get erect have disappeared. I can only get hard with my gf and that's if I take 5mg of cialis beforehand.

I can't get hard on my own at all and morning woods, I haven't had them in years.

I'm at my wits end with what to do, but I'm so close to just not wanting to be here. It's all too mcuh to live with.
28 years old. VL symptoms. No morning wood for years.

Benjohn
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Re: Don't think I can live like this

Postby Benjohn » Thu Nov 18, 2021 8:15 am

Gavalar09 wrote:28 years old and recently finding out I could have VL.

6 months ago I was having good enough sex with my gf, getting hard to porn etc.
Always got hard to porn with no real issue.

The last month, my sex drive and ability to get erect have disappeared. I can only get hard with my gf and that's if I take 5mg of cialis beforehand.

I can't get hard on my own at all and morning woods, I haven't had them in years.

I'm at my wits end with what to do, but I'm so close to just not wanting to be here. It's all too mcuh to live with.


Hey man,

I was 28 when my Ed started. It crushed my confidence and I felt suicidal - in fact I had one attempt that failed. But I'm in a much better place now, so it can be done, you can feel better.

My advice would be to ask for a Penile Doppler Ultrasound from a Urologist who can give you a proper diagnosis. Make sure you have no cialis left in your system when you have the ultrasound to get a proper diagnosis.

Whilst you wait for an appointment, try taking 5mg of cialis every day and see if your nocturnal erections come back. If they don't, try 10mg a day maybe. I personally am using Sildenafil 100mg (max dose) in the middle of the night and most mornings I am waking up with wood again and feeling more human because of it.

There are so many options out there for you. If you do have a venous leak (which can only be diagnosed by a Urologist) then invicorp is a great option as it works to constrict leaky veins. I've used Invicorp and, as my erections were lasting around 3 hours, I've tried going back to using pills instead as it seems a bit too strong right now.

Lots of options. Stay positive and private message me if you want to talk.

Ben
British, 32 yrs old. ED caused by Paraphimosis in 2019. 100mg Sildenafil for sex. Trialled Invicorp as advised by doctor in 2021 but it was too strong. Taking 50mg-75mg of Sildenafil every night at 3am to stimulate morning erections, good response so far.

gjmjoe017
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Location: NW Arkansas

Re: Don't think I can live like this

Postby gjmjoe017 » Mon Jan 24, 2022 9:56 am

Go see a Urologist and get help!There are a lot of options,but you need to go deal with it and you’ll be fine!Trust me I know,I dealt with it!
71 yrs.old married,ED for 7 yrs.Pills for 3 yrs,TriMix for 21/2 yrs.6 1/2 inches flacid,71/4 inches erect,6 inches girth.Coloplast Titan put in 11/13/20,Dr.Bozeman,Arkansas Urology,Little Rock.22cm + 2 RTE.


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