Married but interested in men

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Scott59
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Location: New Hampshire

Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Scott59 » Wed Jul 05, 2023 8:14 am

Never thought I would be in a bed with another man, but here I was. He knew all the right buttons

BelleBite
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Joined: Fri Jun 10, 2022 10:40 pm
Location: New York City

Re: Married but interested in men

Postby BelleBite » Wed Nov 22, 2023 3:56 pm

Anyone in NYC interested in connecting?
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Midwest Guy 333
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Midwest Guy 333 » Sun Jan 28, 2024 1:30 pm

I've been married for 43 years to a beautiful, amazing woman. However, I'm gay. Like REALLY gay. So gay, that on the Kinsey scale, I'm completely off the grid in the upper left- hand quadrant. lol So, I'm gay +1. My wife knows and is fine with it. I cannot imagine my life without her, but neither can I imagine my life without male sex. I've been with hundreds of guys over the years. Have a great situation that I do not take for granted. I love sex with my wife, but I would never be able nor have the desire to have sex with another woman.

I'm actually in a support organization for guys like me. Gay, and married. Just a word of caution for those of you thinking of stepping into your male fantasies... I've known many guys who have blown up their marriages and created hurt beyond comprehension by doing that. Certainly not trying to be a know-it-all or tell anyone what to do, but really think about what is important to you. You can end up with an amazing life, or you can destroy everything you currently have.

Take care, men!



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Implanted 1/17/24 Dr. Clavell, Houston Medical Center Titan XL 24 cm, classic pump, 20 years ED, pills did nothing, injections for 10 years, 64, very fit, 8.2 x 6.2 pre-surgery ;)

Indianaguy
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Location: Northern Indiana

Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Indianaguy » Sun May 11, 2025 10:31 pm

Having ED had really gotten me to think about my urges. Married here, but I have been looking at others, quite often guys. Wife isn't into any sex any more, so my mind and eyes have been wandering. I haven't done anything with a guy, just thoughts. I think having ED has really made me think about this more in depth

backup2014
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby backup2014 » Tue May 13, 2025 6:02 pm

I was pretty active when I was a preteen. Just a lot of touchy feely but no blow jobs. had a couple guys try and screw me but they were too big or I was too tight, never happened. I've been married most of my adult life. My wife is sexy and is horny as me. She knows I like to look at cock but said if I ever do anything not to tell her.
I have had several massages in the last ten years that I received a happy ending. Also was able to play with his dick. Felt incredible, I told her about them, she said, "sounds like you got your monies worth". About six years ago a friend and I shared our sexual experiences as young boys. A few days later I walked into his garage and he was jacking off. I watched him for a few minutes and then helped him out. It was awesome!!
Few months later I sucked him off, again it was awesome!! Unfortunately he has moved away!! I call him ecery now and then and help him get off over the phone. Be careful what you wish for, you may bite off more than you can chew!! LOL
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