Show and Tell

[dcmusc]

This past week, thanks to a very kind member, I was able to get a show and tell. It was pretty amazing. Amazing because it addressed some of my biggest apprehensions.

First, it was a great erection. I was allowed to pump it, feel it and deflate. I will admit, the first reaction to using the pump is the irrational idea that you are squeezing a testicle. My instinct was to be gentle. Well, you aren't and you can't, or the penis will not get erect.

I also realized that is is pretty easy to inflate the shaft while "jacking" and playing with your balls. My biggest concern is that operating the pump would somehow take away some of the spontaneous nature of sex. There are a number of strategies to get the penis erect, but I found that it was much less intrusive than I had worried about. I have had sex in a group before, and frankly you just walk in hard and go to town. After this show and tell, I am pretty sure I would be the most popular top in the group.

The other concern I had was the esthetics of having a "third" testicle. The guy who demonstrated for me had his pump in front of his testicles, the most visible position. He also had pretty big testicles (I am on HRT, so mine are not so large any more) and honestly I couldn't tell where the pump was, even when I handled his scrotum. In the way the I/we enjoy ball play, I think this is still viable. Now, he advised that during sex the scrotum can contract and that the pump can become more obvious. Once I concentrated on looking for it, yep, I could find it. But I had to say, I had to look for it. I am hopeful I can have my pump put behind my balls, but I am feeling a bit better in that it is ultimately the surgeon's decision.

Finally, I was concerned that you could "tell" by feel that there was an implant. My "model" made sure that I could feel his penis in both states and in all areas to get a sense of what it feels like. The only time I had even an sense that there was something different, was feeling the gland when the penis was flaccid. I could sort of make out the ends of the cylinders. But I really had to feel for it and still wasn't sure. Trust me, no one is going to be feeling my glads after I orgasm anyway, I am way too sensitive. No one would be able to tell the difference.

So the point of this post is to thank my friend on here and also to encourage others to do the same. It really is invaluable.

[Donnie1954]

I did my first of hopefully many 'show and tells' for a brother. I have absolutely no problem with nudity around another man, gay or straight, a dick is a dick and ED doesn't care what you do with it. Neither do I. I also demonstrated the pump for him, then let him test drive it by feeling the implant, pumping me up and deflating me. I showed him him a pictorial journey of my surgery and recovery. This was done very professionally. Any man considering an implant or curious about one, should attend a 'show and tell'. I do mine in my home in Central Florida near Disney World. Only serious guys, feel free to PM me.
Donnie

[Dacbrown8691]

I would really appreciate a show and tell. The only guy I've been about to talk with who has one is straight. I live to the north of NYC, there's got to be someone around.

[philly444]

I live in Philadelphia and have done several show & tell. I am implanted since December 2016 and I love it.

[Tsanchez12369]

Hello, is anyone in SF or the Bay Area willing to do a show and tell? I’m considering an implant in 6 months as I hear regular VED and traction before the implant will help me regain some length and girth losr due to peyroines. Thanks, tony

[orangecounty]

Anyone in Orange County cal area or Long beach, Ca.

Peyroines 12 months and not yet stable I have pump and pills but not motivated to use any of it.

Any assist is appreciated.

email direct ezgnm43@yahoo.com

[RecentImplant]

NY-area, a year post implant, happy to help

[Cliff244703]

No

[turbo900]

I’m in Louisville KY and I’d be willing to do a show and tell if anyone was curious or interested.

[Larry10625]

I would really appreciate a show and tell. The only guy I've been about to talk with who has one is straight. I live to the north of NYC, there's got to be someone around.

I am in Ontario, Canada

Larry