Show and Tell
Posted: Sat Jul 15, 2017 9:18 am
This past week, thanks to a very kind member, I was able to get a show and tell. It was pretty amazing. Amazing because it addressed some of my biggest apprehensions.
First, it was a great erection. I was allowed to pump it, feel it and deflate. I will admit, the first reaction to using the pump is the irrational idea that you are squeezing a testicle. My instinct was to be gentle. Well, you aren't and you can't, or the penis will not get erect.
I also realized that is is pretty easy to inflate the shaft while "jacking" and playing with your balls. My biggest concern is that operating the pump would somehow take away some of the spontaneous nature of sex. There are a number of strategies to get the penis erect, but I found that it was much less intrusive than I had worried about. I have had sex in a group before, and frankly you just walk in hard and go to town. After this show and tell, I am pretty sure I would be the most popular top in the group.
The other concern I had was the esthetics of having a "third" testicle. The guy who demonstrated for me had his pump in front of his testicles, the most visible position. He also had pretty big testicles (I am on HRT, so mine are not so large any more) and honestly I couldn't tell where the pump was, even when I handled his scrotum. In the way the I/we enjoy ball play, I think this is still viable. Now, he advised that during sex the scrotum can contract and that the pump can become more obvious. Once I concentrated on looking for it, yep, I could find it. But I had to say, I had to look for it. I am hopeful I can have my pump put behind my balls, but I am feeling a bit better in that it is ultimately the surgeon's decision.
Finally, I was concerned that you could "tell" by feel that there was an implant. My "model" made sure that I could feel his penis in both states and in all areas to get a sense of what it feels like. The only time I had even an sense that there was something different, was feeling the gland when the penis was flaccid. I could sort of make out the ends of the cylinders. But I really had to feel for it and still wasn't sure. Trust me, no one is going to be feeling my glads after I orgasm anyway, I am way too sensitive. No one would be able to tell the difference.
So the point of this post is to thank my friend on here and also to encourage others to do the same. It really is invaluable.
First, it was a great erection. I was allowed to pump it, feel it and deflate. I will admit, the first reaction to using the pump is the irrational idea that you are squeezing a testicle. My instinct was to be gentle. Well, you aren't and you can't, or the penis will not get erect.
I also realized that is is pretty easy to inflate the shaft while "jacking" and playing with your balls. My biggest concern is that operating the pump would somehow take away some of the spontaneous nature of sex. There are a number of strategies to get the penis erect, but I found that it was much less intrusive than I had worried about. I have had sex in a group before, and frankly you just walk in hard and go to town. After this show and tell, I am pretty sure I would be the most popular top in the group.
The other concern I had was the esthetics of having a "third" testicle. The guy who demonstrated for me had his pump in front of his testicles, the most visible position. He also had pretty big testicles (I am on HRT, so mine are not so large any more) and honestly I couldn't tell where the pump was, even when I handled his scrotum. In the way the I/we enjoy ball play, I think this is still viable. Now, he advised that during sex the scrotum can contract and that the pump can become more obvious. Once I concentrated on looking for it, yep, I could find it. But I had to say, I had to look for it. I am hopeful I can have my pump put behind my balls, but I am feeling a bit better in that it is ultimately the surgeon's decision.
Finally, I was concerned that you could "tell" by feel that there was an implant. My "model" made sure that I could feel his penis in both states and in all areas to get a sense of what it feels like. The only time I had even an sense that there was something different, was feeling the gland when the penis was flaccid. I could sort of make out the ends of the cylinders. But I really had to feel for it and still wasn't sure. Trust me, no one is going to be feeling my glads after I orgasm anyway, I am way too sensitive. No one would be able to tell the difference.
So the point of this post is to thank my friend on here and also to encourage others to do the same. It really is invaluable.
