Difficult to Ejaculate / Feeling: Ring -or- No Ring?

[StanWest]

History: Two years into relationship. ED to begin with. Very Flacid. Viagra or Cialis did / still do nothing. Using Trimix (11-15u). Took 9 months? to ejaculate, so this is an uphill battle. 70 Years old. Discovered venous leakage, make things more difficult.

Now using Xact Fit rings. I have tried the range 15 down to 10. Have been finding 12 or 11 fine. Makes me stiff. Can go for an hour. But very hard to reach ejaculation. Not that I can't, I sure can orally stimulated! Why is that so??? Sometimes I do get trimix pain in the glans, the tighter the ring and/or the larger the dose, the more the pain. Oral Rx pain med masks to a certain point.

Due to the pain, I recently pulled the ring off during a love session. It lessens the stretched hardness, causing less pain. Even eliminate it sometimes. I became more limp, but still had enough to penetrate, but OH WOW did this feel better. No hard driving / pounding, but sensuous beautiful slower movements. My wife feels this difference too. I will be pursuing this new method (to me). Makes it feel more like oral. To which I can ejaculate. I will be going backing and trying the larger size rings, 13 & 14. Won't be very rigid but just want / need enough.

Any similar experiences?

[bldoink]

Have you tried a larger ring behind the boys rather than in front? That works for me.

There seems to be a lot of potential causes of anorgasmia. Age, injection ingredients, PDE5 drugs, tight cock rings, mental stuff, other oral drugs and too much chicken choking are all reported causes and there's probably more.

I get better boners with smaller injection doses if I stack with Viagra. However, I find stacking worsens my anorgasmia. YMMV

Good luck.

[JimmyB]

I recently have had a problem ejaculating during intercourse. Not sure why. I use Viagra and a ring, and this has been OK for a few years. Now suddenly this! Very frustrating for both of us. Thankfully I can still give her 3-5 orgasms each time, but I can't finish like before. It's even hard to j/o now too. Can't imagine even penetrating without a ring now. I need the extra support.
Anyone in a similar boat?