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Having lost a good bit of sensitivity, I find it impossible
to orgasm intervaginally. I use both Trimix injection and
the Giddy oval ring and get good hardness. The Giddy
prevents blood loss by venous leak. But, I still can't get
off. We've found that when my wife gives me a few
minutes of prostate massage, I come and come for a long
time. Probably the best orgasms of my life. Maybe it
could help others.

As I told a friend, having it done by a doctor or doing it
yourself is NOTHING NOTHING like having your wife or
significant other do it. Not even CLOSE!

I think I must spasm for a full minute (but haven't timed it).

PPSDoAmINormal

I think my loss of sensitivity is old ago (79) and clothes
contacting penis over many years.

I had a girlfriend do it when I didn't know she was going to.
The best orgasm I'd had up to that point. This was b4
current marriage.

Prelubricate yourself and make sure you're clean.

Well, this is a first. Today, I decided to try prostate massage while masturbating. Had my husband start massaging for a while before I started jerking off. WOW! I have been anorgasmic for a long time, and just had an orgasm that I thought was blowing the top of my head off and went on for ages. I haven't cum like that in a long, long time. I'm a convert! Try it guys.

SteveSW
Good for you! I cum for a long time and my whole body
twitches periodically for about a minute. Some guys
think it's like a doctor's exam - nothing further from the
truth.

I find the depth of penetration is rather short. There are
many nerve endings near the Anu s (censor). I make sure
I'm clean to spare my wife. I offered to have her use
a condom (early on) but she declined. If you have an
accomodating wife it's wonderful. Not a deep penetration
for me.

Growinjim,
You're right. The prostate is not located that deeply and is easy to reach with a finger or two. I had my husband wear a latex glove, and there was no mess, except for the one I made when I came

An orgasm from a prostrate massage feels nothing like a penile orgasm. Anal sex used to get me a good orgasm or three, but I was never lucky enough to have a penile orgasm at the same time. Think I compare a prostrate orgasm to a female orgasm. During a prostrate orgasm all the muscles up my butthole will contract and pulse. Very nice sensation.

To clarify, I masturbate while wife probes the prostate. Never
fails for me - ok, once. I call it anidigitus playing off cunnilingus
(Lingus = tongue)(digitus = finger) Just being cute.

PS. All the muscles in my body are involved (that I know of)
Very intense.

Aminormal

I'm by no means an expert. There ARE a number of prostate toys
and I've tried a few. But none matches the method used by my
spouse. Do you have a willing friend? Or, maybe a
Urologist could help. I don't know if you're willing, but
there are professional ladies who might let you test the
concept.

My first experience was when a lady I was dating often was
giving me a BJ. She stopped a minute and reached for
something (lube it turns out) and she went back to work
with her finger while continuing the BJ. Mind blowing.

I can't do it to myself with success.