Loss of ejaculation

[Unclebob81]

When you have a radical prostatectomy of course you can’t ejaculate anymore. Enjoy the lack of cleanup but how have you dealt with the mental part of not being able to ejaculate?

[Whodat]

Yep...its not the same satisfaction. However my GF performs extended foreplay as a trade off with slow oral, gentle massage, and hand held vibrator as a way to overcome the different feel of ejaculation. Somehow this helps to overcome the mental thing with her providing a natural boner ... which disappears when she quits. What's gone is gone. Certainly many other things to say good bye to before long. Such is life.