How Important To A Woman Is The Penetration Part Of Sex?

[EveningWood]

Had to chime in here with my 2¢ worth.
Penetration is sex to its ultimate form. I will say any understanding woman will tolerate no penetration, for a while. Some women may leave after the first failure.

When my ED started I was mid-50. My wife was late 30's. We dealt with the changes best we could, on Viagra then Trimix. When those failed to produce an erection to enable me to penetrate her we moved to masturbation games. One night sometime later she told me "Masturbating just isn't doing it for me anymore" Holy Shit! Will she seek dick elsewhere?
I really doubt she would leave me, but how depressing. That's when I got serious about the implant.
So, in my opinion YES penetration is important.

Hi Old Guy.

Seems like most women have a tolerance level, which varies and depends on different factors.
How long were you married, before the ED kicked in?

It seems to me most guys from the forum were married for years/had a partner long enough before the problems started (with exceptions, of course). This actually is the best scenario relationship wise, as the woman is already emotionally (and even financially) invested.

Based on my extremely limited experience (dating and hook ups) - most young women do not have the patience to sit trough with you and battle with this (or most) problems in life (there are exceptions, of course). One of the biggest reasons for this likely is the abundance of options flowing from social media and dating sites. Basically if a guy cannot get it up when they hook up, she would ghost him and choose someone else from the other ten orbiters she has.

The solution from my POV is to deal with your problems and choose a compatible and understanding partner.

[Old Guy]

Hi Old Guy.

Seems like most women have a tolerance level, which varies and depends on different factors.
How long were you married, before the ED kicked in?

Based on my extremely limited experience (dating and hook ups) - most young women do not have the patience to sit trough with you and battle with this (or most) problems in life (there are exceptions, of course). One of the biggest reasons for this likely is the abundance of options flowing from social media and dating sites. Basically if a guy cannot get it up when they hook up, she would ghost him and choose someone else from the other ten orbiters she has.

The solution from my POV is to deal with your problems and choose a compatible and understanding partner.

Totally agree with your POV. When my ED started we had been married for almost 20 years, had 2 kids. She stuck with me through the failures of Viagra then Trimix. Finally the implant. When we started dating in 1986 every night was sex, some days 2 or 3 times. She was the horniest female then. My implant didn't bring back the old days, but it sure made these days pleasurable. I will add, she's a saint walking on earth.

[tomas1]

Old Guy, I married your wife's older sister lol.

[steamfitter]

It seems to me most guys from the forum were married for years/had a partner long enough before the problems started (with exceptions, of course). This actually is the best scenario relationship wise, as the woman is already emotionally (and even financially) invested.

Based on my extremely limited experience (dating and hook ups) - most young women do not have the patience to sit trough with you and battle with this (or most) problems in life (there are exceptions, of course). One of the biggest reasons for this likely is the abundance of options flowing from social media and dating sites. Basically if a guy cannot get it up when they hook up, she would ghost him and choose someone else from the other ten orbiters she has.

The solution from my POV is to deal with your problems and choose a compatible and understanding partner.

I am single and can say that many older women (40+) now seem to want younger men on dating sites (I can only assume this is because of sex). It's a cynical way to look at relationships, but from what I can see, you are only as good as your last day's work. Which for a man in a relationship, means sex and being a provider. Women have very high expectations from relationships based on social media, and men really don't have much leverage in relationships anymore. I have heard women say "I believe love conquers almost everything, not everything, but almost everything." I believe the "almost" is woman-code for sex and money problems.

[Al1962]

Life is just plain tuff.
Some of it you can work through and some you can not. Some may say "deal with" or "man up" but relationships involve two and the other person must be considered. Very good honest opinions here to be aware of. A spur of the moment hook up or dating site confession can be worth a try and fair to all. I have a problem trying to start a relationship. I don't want her to like me before she learns of ED and feels she should give me a chance. My feeling is, a woman might come to like me and then try to to deal with the ED situation but I don't want to do that to anyone. If I leave her alone she has the chance of meeting a very capable guy and she deserves that. There are some wonderful very understanding woman out there, but they would likely be happier with a better sex life and they deserve that.

[FroggyFresh21]

Had to chime in here with my 2¢ worth.
Penetration is sex to its ultimate form. I will say any understanding woman will tolerate no penetration, for a while. Some women may leave after the first failure.

When my ED started I was mid-50. My wife was late 30's. We dealt with the changes best we could, on Viagra then Trimix. When those failed to produce an erection to enable me to penetrate her we moved to masturbation games. One night sometime later she told me "Masturbating just isn't doing it for me anymore" Holy Shit! Will she seek dick elsewhere?
I really doubt she would leave me, but how depressing. That's when I got serious about the implant.
So, in my opinion YES penetration is important.

Hi Old Guy.

Seems like most women have a tolerance level, which varies and depends on different factors.
How long were you married, before the ED kicked in?

It seems to me most guys from the forum were married for years/had a partner long enough before the problems started (with exceptions, of course). This actually is the best scenario relationship wise, as the woman is already emotionally (and even financially) invested.

Based on my extremely limited experience (dating and hook ups) - most young women do not have the patience to sit trough with you and battle with this (or most) problems in life (there are exceptions, of course). One of the biggest reasons for this likely is the abundance of options flowing from social media and dating sites. Basically if a guy cannot get it up when they hook up, she would ghost him and choose someone else from the other ten orbiters she has.

The solution from my POV is to deal with your problems and choose a compatible and understanding partner.

I would say this in response to a woman's tolerance level. My assumption is that if a woman is willing to tolerate your struggles with Ed it is because she sees some form of value in you outside of the bedroom. Whether you've been together for a long time or it is the first time you are hooking up, you had to court this woman to get her to come over to your place and have sex. This likely happened because she saw good traits in you. Just because you can't get an erection doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't want to continue trying with you. She still sees you as someone of value to her.

[Old Guy]

Old Guy, I married your wife's older sister lol.

You don't want to do that! She's a nut case, married 3 times already. Twice to the same guy she's now divorcing.

No, really, I hope you mean your wife is as good as mine!

[AnotherOldMan]

Since women are NOT allowed to join or post on this site, the responses will be filtered through masculine lenses.

Your most valid answer would be obtained by directly speaking to a woman you are intimate with.

[Old Guy]

Since women are NOT allowed to join or post on this site, the responses will be filtered through masculine lenses.

Your most valid answer would be obtained by directly speaking to a woman you are intimate with.

Very True.
My wife says that's her favorite part though.

[ready2go]

woman need to be pounded . oral is good they love it but they need a good pounding .they love that more . to be used and dominated .