A Open Letter to My Fellow ED Colleagues

[Viggo55]

Dear Members (no pun intended, of course):

This site has proved to be one of the greatest Internet sites to find their way into my computer. I must thank Betty Dodson's site for helping me here, too.

I have read every posting relevant to my situation: age 72; medicated hypertension (401.1 Benign essential hypertension), ED; understanding but not very sexually responsive wife with "woman problems"; one who has tried Cialis, Levitra, Viagra; under care with Trimix. And now the pump--which is ordered.

What I have done lately is to concentrate my reading efforts on the postings about pumps. I look forward to trying, and I hope for success. Then I hope the wife and I can get it on...get it together...

I have spent time copying and pasting all the good stuff from you and put it into 19 pages of text that I can read as I need. You have helped me, enlightened me, and encouraged me. I wish all of you who have found this site can find some kind of relief for your individual conditions.

For many years of horniness as a young boy learning how to come and then coming as a teen, I worked my member by myself--and shared it with a friend (male) as we grew together, through the first two years of high school. I was a "virgin" at marriage. A good marriage, with sex like minks for many years. Then something changed.

I was diagnosed as bi-polar; medications and therapy followed--then the hypertension medications. I cannot remember, nor can my wife remember, when the dick became limp. We adjusted, then had no intercourse. But we did all right in our own ways, alone and together.

And now, here I am, for the past four or five years, under the care of urologists. These urologists responded when I asked for help. I would not use the Muse, however. So the wife and I have been using Trimix for the past two years, having fun--but no penetration.

Then FrankTalk. Oh, how wonderful! I had no one to ask--no friends--about what they were going through, whether that had sex problems. And then I find, surprise!, I was not alone.

I am not alone. And I feel so much better. I knew about cancer, prostate surgery, impotence. But I knew not what other problems were involved. I now know.

And I thank you for honesty (about women, bi-sexuality, gay sex, married sex, no sex). (I refer you all to look at Solotouch.com for masturbation stories that might be your story--and for stories to get you hot.) I shall continue to be one of you--and shall tell you how it is going, while referring back to you. We need more out there to hear our stories, and to hear their stories. Each of us is unique, with something different to share.

I do want someone who is not technically challenged as I am to share a video of pumping and success. (I do thank the implant video with intercourse--and for sharing your wife with us--and the video that demonstrates application: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H-oxXOJ0WkI But I do not need a Fleshlight commercial, as some of you agree. I can find that one.) So please help. YouTube doesn't show it "all"; the DVD the doctor gave me showed me only one penis growing--and no more than that.

Also, in my sex addict/pornography viewer's way, I shall post good sites--and I have found some from you. Thanks. (Here's one: submityourflicks.com) (Small penis? t-ta.tumblr.com)

That's all. Thank you for reading this.

me

[dtwarren1942]

Hey, Viggio!

Thanks for sharing your thoughts and your experience. Thanks to FT I too am a Trimix affacionado; however, I do a lot of pumping between injections.

Which pump did you order?