Having to change urologists due to a move. Most qualified for a lot of my issues is a younger female. I’m trying to decide how comfortable I would feel being very candid w her. Also prob would be a tech, not her to do an injection for a Doppler, but idk how I’d feel about that. I’ve become much less “shy” about discussing sexual issues with Dr. I’ll bet we all have. I know it depends on the Dr. and on me, but your insight would be appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
Female urologist?
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Arbytee2
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Female urologist?
61. ED ten years. 25 Sildenafil used to work great. Now 100 Sildenafil + 25 Tadalafil only ok. 5-7 days a week. Tried Firmtech cockring which helps some. Going to ask for script for Trimix.
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easymoney
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Re: Female urologist?
Had my implant done by a teaching hospital ..had issues they had not seen before ..each time i went for a follow up had anywhere from 3 people to 12 in the room with the dr both sexes ..taking photos trying to bend the implant ..after a visit or 2 nothing fazes me anymore u just sort of get used to it ..
Rigicon since 6-2023 happy to share my experience and do show and tell
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AKJess
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Re: Female urologist?
My primary urologist is a male and his partner is female. I have had to see her several times when my regular wasn't available. I am pretty candid with her and I don't hold anything back. She has been great and is open to hear what I have to say and is very helpful. Its also advantageous to have her when discussing sex with my wife. Since my wife has a strong pelvic floor, extreme tightness and never had kids, she understands our situation on both sides. It all comes down to how comfortable you are with your provider. I don't care about whether they are male or female, a good doctor is a good doctor and a shitty one is a shitty one, doesn't matter what they have between their legs.
56, married 33 years to an amazing woman with a high sex drive, BPH, PD (47deg down to ~25deg) treatment: Xiaflex with Pentoxifylline & Cialis, traction. Able to have intercouse again - will implant if PD takes a turn (pun intended) for the worse.
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Martin6469
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Re: Female urologist?
A friend always goes to a woman doctor because he says women listen better. Personally I try to see the best-qualified doctors, male or female. If my prostate has to be palpated or my genitals need to be handled, I prefer a woman as long as she's knowledgeable.
I haven't been to a female urologist, but the nurse who taught me how to inject Trimix, and then injected my first dose, was a young lady. I wasn't shy about standing there with no pants - I wanted to learn her expert technique. I have a middle-aged woman dermatologist. When I was trying to stop anorgasmia, we talked at some length about the special nerve endings on my glans while she examined every square millimeter of it in her hands. She was very professional, and I wasn't bothered or shy in the least - I wanted answers from an expert. (Didn't actually get any that day, though.)
I haven't been to a female urologist, but the nurse who taught me how to inject Trimix, and then injected my first dose, was a young lady. I wasn't shy about standing there with no pants - I wanted to learn her expert technique. I have a middle-aged woman dermatologist. When I was trying to stop anorgasmia, we talked at some length about the special nerve endings on my glans while she examined every square millimeter of it in her hands. She was very professional, and I wasn't bothered or shy in the least - I wanted answers from an expert. (Didn't actually get any that day, though.)
Age 81 in 2026. On testosterone replacement due to hypothalamus malfunction. (Attention depressed guys: low testosterone is a cause.) Healthy health nut but ED due to getting old. Like to keep enough cardiovascular ability to thrust for 25 min.
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