ED and Starting a Relationship

[ventura]

Andy, what happens if you actually like her. Have you thought of introducing a vacum pump in your life for sex.

[dg_moore]

Andy, what happens if you actually like her. Have you thought of introducing a vacum pump in your life for sex.

Maybe you could postpone decisions about sex until after you meet this person? If the two of you hit it off you can always have a conversation about your ED. If it's a deal breaker, she's obviously not the one for you. I've chatted with lots of men who expect sex upon the first or second meeting, but as a general rule I don't think this is how relationships progress normally for most people. But I'm old and probably old-fashioned, so perhaps I'm just out of touch.

[trimix60]

After my last divorce, and after my prostate was removed, I did the dating game thing online...and I did it with ED and needing trimix injections to have penetrating sex.

I did not let my condition hold me back from having sex or happiness !!! You just need to have the right mindset and move on with life with what you have...

After meeting a few ladies I finally got to the point of sex with one of them......we jumped into bed and had a great time...when it was right, I just told her I needed to go to the bathroom for a minute (not an unusual thing)....I gave myself a trimix injection with a pre-loaded syringe and jumped back into bed....no problem !!!

After a few minutes I had a great erection and she thought the sex was fantastic...you can actually use your trimix to your advantage....keeping an erection for over an hour is pretty impressive at my age...!!! you also don't lose your erection after climax....it just keeps on going !!!!

I then meet the lady I would eventually marry and with love in both our hearts we did not let this little issue get between us...if the person is right for you this is not a problem. My wife is just turning 40 and I will be 65 in a few months....If I can do this so can anyone else...use what you have and find the right person !!!

Cheers !!!

Curt

[Andy425]

Andy, what happens if you actually like her. Have you thought of introducing a vacum pump in your life for sex.

Maybe you could postpone decisions about sex until after you meet this person? If the two of you hit it off you can always have a conversation about your ED. If it's a deal breaker, she's obviously not the one for you. I've chatted with lots of men who expect sex upon the first or second meeting, but as a general rule I don't think this is how relationships progress normally for most people. But I'm old and probably old-fashioned, so perhaps I'm just out of touch.

Who said anything about sex on the first date?

[gerryspyros]

Hi farmallfarmer, this is your old chat room buddy, i.e., ontopher469!

I'm surprised no one mentioned giving your lady clitoris oral sex!!!

It's medically well known that fewer than 20% of women have orgasm from a man's penetration. So, women don't really care if you have ED but whether you're going to give her an orgasm. Oral on her clitoris, using your mouth, is guaranteed to give her a wild continuous orgasm. Once she goes into a major orgasm, you can get her to do anything, i.e., suck on your penis, suck on your testicles, etc. for as long as you want.

Men, come on.

yes I agree but you can't do it all the time...you have to be able to have normal sex too..otherwise its like masturbation..they like it a lot...they get crazy ok ... but ...

[ventura]

Andy, was not thinking of the first date. Just in general introducing a vacum pump into your sex life.

[Andy425]

I've had a vacuum pump for over 2 years.