The emotional part of ED!

[newtoed]

I have been very confused about my condition.
Some of the guys here have a complete reason to have total ED and the solution is injection or implant.
But some of us have only partial ED and inconsistent results with erection with or without pills.
I have night erections so hard that wake me up and I have to masturbate to calm down. But when I am awake I only have partial erecrion while masturbating or with oral from my wife. With 20 mg Levitra is ok.
I have marital issues now and actually I moved out. I feel the relief that I don't have to think about, plan and struggle through sex. Finally I can just be. I feel liberated. I plant to divorce not just because of my sexual problem but because of other issues with my wife too.
In a marriage or long term relationship the man often loses the control over sex and most things (90% of the buying decisions are made by women!). At the beginning we have no problem to ask for and get what we want, but after a while we get lazy and the wife gets too comfortable unless she is a freak in a good way but those are rare. In marriages and relationships I see around me and in my own sex gets routine and dull even in the best circumstances. Add a little aging, stress, ED and menopause and things really get bad. Is it really a wonder that we are not so turned on and excited by the same things we did thousands of times. I'm saddened that my second marriage is failing. We have been through the grinder in the last 3 years.
Actually I feel optimistic to start a new life even though after rectal cancer I have many things against me: the chance of it coming back, Erection problems, I am 51, a 15" scar on my deformed belly, no naval, no butt hole and I wear a colostomy bag.
But I still feel attractive, love my work, make good money and I can pick up young women anywhere.
Let's see what happens.

[ED2013]

Do your erections you get at night subside when you stand up?

[Anonymous2]

Hi Newtoed, So your getting really good nocturnal erections? Yes, do you get morning woods as well? Are you on any kind of drugs? if it is drugs of some kind, may be the drugs wear off during the day if taken first thing, this why they could be affecting your evening erections, these are just some thoughts.
But there are lots of things that are erection and sex killers, have a look down this list.
OK what follows, any one of these can give him ED (erectile dysfunction) or in your case soft erections at night.
To little sleep.
Prostate problems.
Performance anxiety.
High cholesterol.
Diabetes and its meds.
Blood pressure and its meds.
High cholesterol and its meds statins.
Recreation drugs.
Depression and its meds.
Alcohol.
Smoking.
Meds, over the counter meds that is.
Stress.
Anger.
Anxiety.
Middle-aged-spread.
Self image.
Low libido.
His general health.
Low testosterone and very high testosterone.
Over masturbation.
Porn and masturbating to it.
Does any of this ring bells.

NOWHARD