Who Have You Told?

[dg_moore]

Dave, Good for you, If you and your wife are happy with your life (yours and hers) good for you. If you and wife are close and happy it does not matter what we think as we are to the end of of our lives. You both need to do what you both are going to be satisfied with in the end regardless of what some of us "experts on life" think it should be. Like the country song says "I like it I love I want some of it" , if that is not in the cards for you then you do what is best for the situation. I hope you are happy for the rest of your time here on earth, God bless you and I hope you are satisfied with your life regardless of what someone else thinks it should be. God bless you and wife.

Thanks for the kind remarks. Several here have tried pretty aggressively to convince me that there's something wrong with me, and that I'm just not trying hard enough. If any of them were to spend a day in my shoes they would understand instantly. I appreciate your "live and let live" remarks.

[alibaba]

Dave, I am glad you are comfortable where you are. Thought I would throw that out as a suggestion. Best of luck. Life is not the same for everyone and we need to understand that. $#it happens when we least expect it. d

[dg_moore]

Dave, I am glad you are comfortable where you are. Thought I would throw that out as a suggestion. Best of luck. Life is not the same for everyone and we need to understand that. $#it happens when we least expect it. d

I'm 72 and my wife is almost 70. According to current research, over half of people over 70 report no longer being sexually active, so I'm actually in the majority statistically.

[hard drive]

Hi Hardrod and Thinktank, Well at least some of us are real men and that we are open in our minds and body's, we are the men that Paul wants here being able to say yes we do love our sex lives and will do anything to keep it going, its called having a good sex life, no matter what happens to us, we will keep our dicks as hard as we can and our wives as happy in bed as we can.

So, just to be clear... you are saying that those of us who choose to keep our private matters anonymous aren't "real men", and that Franktalk would prefer that we stop participating on this website?

I cant really understand DG's wife and after the menopause

Eacctly! YOU don't understand, and yet you continue to pressure the him, and talk about being a "Real Man". Clearly you don't understand that everyonne has the right to privacy weather you respect that or not. This type of "Real Man" mentality is EXACTLY the reason why many don't wish to always share.

So guys lets all be free and help others, this is why this site is here to help other get over this problem guys have over ED.

Lets give Paul a big hand for doing this, as he is another man who got over ED by fighting it and wanting to still be the real man.

Good luck to us All, and do keep those ends UP.

NOWHARD

I am a disabled VET and I served alongside many "real men". Some of them got their legs and genitals completly blown off their bodies, and will NEVER have sex again. Some are paralized from the neck down and will NEVER have sex again. Those men are STILL "REAL MEN". Most of them don't want to talk about their lack of sexual abilities or desires because there is no point on dwelling on it. They move on as best they can with the life that is left. Many are happy now, and have no desire for sex, no desire to explain their most private situtions, to people who think they are no longer a "real man".

I know you are probably a good man, with good intentions, but you don't need to push your personal values onto people who have made it clear that their values are different.

The topic question was asked, and answered. If you disagree and you must sound off about it, just say you disagree and move on please.

[Anonymous2]

To Hard Drive, We can go round just picking little bits out of posts and run away with our own thoughts, and what you have done here not right you taken things all out of context, and not the way they were put.

And you know that if you have something really good to say that will help others do so, but please do go try picking a fight where its not wanted, because you answer takes it away from the flow of the whole post, its all about being open and telling that yes we have beat ED, and telling others how its best to pass on what has happened to us, its so others can listen and not to be afraid doing something about there problem, and if they get clear of it just do tell others and so on.

To many guys, who do have problems climb into clouds and leaving there partners with out sex all because they think its a private thing, the problem is they stay there, never knowing which will be best for them, its when they hear talk from a buddy, someone in family or just some talk at work, there not afraid to go and ask what they did, so its the real men who have like others and me, we beat ED and are willing to pass that, so its the ones who come on and say what they done, it tells the world, but they would not tell a friend or family member, these are the ones I'm talking to come out and be real men, pass it on to anyone who wants to here.

Now Hard Drive do you really get the picture now, and sorry about the guys you know who got shot up, this is not what its about, you cant talk about them in the same way as a guy with ED, as ED comes in many ways but not from bullets, grenades or anti personnel mines, these assault the body in a far different way which you do know being a vet.

NOWHARD

[MARKOS2018]

Who said you weren't a real man? I was a vet too and have serious med issues too. If a friend opens up to talking of issues of urinary or prostate problems ii don't shy away from the dialog. That is how I feel since I would like to understand what I will be up against if I have to face prostate surgery. I keep my sex life with my wife out of the dialogue.













Rod

[hard drive]

You know, if you want to PM me I'll talk about it, but I'm done with this thread.