Mental ED?
Re: Mental ED?
At one time I read a report on the various ways smoking can mess with your erections. Shocking it can mess you up so many ways. Do you take B.P. meds? Anti anxiety meds? MANY meds can mess with your erections. Try to think about the sex you are going to have and want to have and not your failures or worry about failures. It is hard but being optimistic does help put you in the right mood to get you there. I am sure there are psychological reasons for ED too but I often wonder how many doctors with perfectly functioning dicks diagnose others with psychological ED because they have been lucky to never experience a non functioning moment. Manage everything you can control and then seek medical help for issues you cannot. Medical help can only go so far if you limit it with smoking, drinking, poor rest, stress, worry. I know every try is like wondering if the cop that pulled you over is going to give you a ticket but if you know you are doing nothing wrong then you can be assured he only stopped you to tell you that you have a cool car and ask if he can see under the bonnet. Cheers.
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Re: Mental ED?
I think for whatever underlying medical problems cause ED, the anxiety about not ":performing" tips most of us over the line. When I was younger if my big head wasn't in the game for whatever reason, anxiety, depressed about something in my life, preoccupied with a financial worry or concern, performance anxiety..I could more or less power through it and get the erection I needed...now the slightest bit of mental chaos, anxiety whatever you want to call it....pushes me over the line to the limp dick zone...THat old saying comes to mind...."What I used to spend all night doing...now takes me all night to do."....and even if I have all night...I can quick loose interest in what suppose to be a human's most pleasurable enjoyable activity....sex...
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Re: Mental ED?
Hi DD, At the moment I'm getting my penis ready for a visit from my wife in a few weeks time so apart from what I take daily, I've turned the clock back a few years and got back into jelqing and some stretching and been getting some really good strong morning woods far stronger than before.
Now if you know nothing of these exercises then just get over to www.pegym.com after having some trouble there site is slowly come back up, look about jelqing and stretching will come up as well.
The reason I'm saying give a try, as this will pump lots of extra blood down your penis and with luck get some of the knots and kinks out of it, your find a start course for it on there and take slow and easy, see what kind of results you get from it
Good Luck
NOWHARD
Now if you know nothing of these exercises then just get over to www.pegym.com after having some trouble there site is slowly come back up, look about jelqing and stretching will come up as well.
The reason I'm saying give a try, as this will pump lots of extra blood down your penis and with luck get some of the knots and kinks out of it, your find a start course for it on there and take slow and easy, see what kind of results you get from it
Good Luck
NOWHARD
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Re: Mental ED?
Hey dig dog i understand what your going through.
I would suggest a total reboot. I dealt with Premature ejaculation AND performance anxiety and was able to overcome both
What you need is to cut porn out of the equation 100 percent!! not more porn for a year! trust me...this will lead to your desire accumalating more and more...your body will start to desire some sort of sexual contact after beign deprived but you MUST limit this to only real women. Even if they reject you keep trying and dont use porn. and when you finally do land a girl your gonna find that your hard on for her is going to be great.
AS for the past....get some therapy and learn to leave it in the past...its good you started taking vitamins but you must quit the cigarretes since these decrease blood flow.and are very bad if you already have errection problems.
start a new you and a confident you..if this doesnt work then you might have VL
I would suggest a total reboot. I dealt with Premature ejaculation AND performance anxiety and was able to overcome both
What you need is to cut porn out of the equation 100 percent!! not more porn for a year! trust me...this will lead to your desire accumalating more and more...your body will start to desire some sort of sexual contact after beign deprived but you MUST limit this to only real women. Even if they reject you keep trying and dont use porn. and when you finally do land a girl your gonna find that your hard on for her is going to be great.
AS for the past....get some therapy and learn to leave it in the past...its good you started taking vitamins but you must quit the cigarretes since these decrease blood flow.and are very bad if you already have errection problems.
start a new you and a confident you..if this doesnt work then you might have VL
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