Am I a wanker?

[DavidJ]

I tend to pull my foreskin over my cockhead and then back,using my finger and thumb, dont really use any lube. I will happily do this for a while and its good hard or semihard.

I had no problem masturbating when I had ED since I also have a foreskin to move back and forth over the head. But with the implant that I got so I could have intercourse with my wife again, it makes masturbation even easier!

[regal1945]

We just love to wank, had biopsy one month ago tested pos, T2c- 3-4=7. on Radiation treatments, when shooting a load it is bloody and burns comming out is this normal? I have no urinary or ED problems as of yet. TIA

[Daveuk36]

hi regal, id advise you post on the doctors posts for some advice on this. Thanks for posing tho, Dave

[Genome]

If there were degrees for wanking, I would hold several doctorates. At almost 64, I am a 2 a day guy....and up to 6 a day during a marathon. With my leaky dick (veinous leak) I have to use a cock ring to get and stay hard. And I use lube on my dick and sack both. Since I am losing sensitivity in my penis...I am gaining sensitivity in my scrotum....which has become an increasingly pleasurable endeavor. In fact, I can no longer orgasm without adequate balls stimulation. I sometimes enjoy using a fleshlight. The orgasms with the fleshlight are incredible. My problem is i am too big for it so it is way to tight for the trip but great for the final destination. I also sometimes usa a prostate stimulator to add some extra enjoyment.

[regal1945]

3 weeks out of treatment, full hard woody penatrates anything, orgasms like I have never had before in my 66 years, fluid is clear (seems without sperm) but the sperm may return in time. Volume of ejack is low compared to before PCa. No urinary or bowel problems so on the home streach.

[Techman52]

Used to be my favorite indoor sport -- and being raised a 'farm kid' my fair share of outdoor time too.
Unfortunately age and ED / prostate cancer and resulting surgery has taken it's toll and been a bit of a setback.
Hopefully implant will give me back what I have missed and although there will be no "money shots", my psyche will be well satisfied

Larry

[Gingertom3]

Like DaveUK I discovered that if I rub my penis and scrotum gently through my y-fronts,I can get an erection. It's not a hard one because the prostate surgery that I had was nerve-damaging. But once I get semi-hard I quickly lubed my cock and slipped a cock ring down to the base. Then it got harder. And the sensations from gentle masturbation were great.
I felt great too, knowing that this method alone, without pump or pill or Muse would enable me to have sex with my wife.
But I don't want an orgasm this way because I want to share that experience with my wife.
Anyway it's encouraging for me. I thought that only medication or the pump would draw blood into my penis. Now I know differently. So this is a good way for those who have had prostate surgery to train the old boy and keep him alive and active.

[Josh_14_11]

Daveuk36:
"I always like to start in my undies, rubbing through the material until i get a fairly decent hard on, which doesnt take too long. (as i've said, i get hard, its keeping hard that i cant manage)
Then its pants pushed down to just under my balls, as they are small i enjoy the slight pressure the waistband puts on them."

Gingertom3:
"Like DaveUK I discovered that if I rub my penis and scrotum gently through my y-fronts,I can get an erection."

There's good medical evidence for "use it or lose it" when it comes to erectile and ejaculatory function, so my goal is to wank daily (unless the wife is available and willing for sex!) However, getting the initial stiffy can be problematic at times.

When I was younger, I did the whole "rub through the undies" routine that Dave and Tom both describe. There's a reason that works for getting an intial chub, and after reading their postings a few months ago, I've revived my use of that technique.

There are different kinds of nerve receptors in the penis and genital skin. Some respond to temperature changes, some respond to stretching, some respond to vibration (manual or battery-induced!), some respond to light touch, and some respond to deep pressure (even through your clothing).

The different techniques guys use are capitalizing on the different kinds of nerve endings, and where they're located. E.g., elastic waistband under the balls is putting pressure on another "sweet spot" in the perineum. Pulling shaft skin or pulling the ballsack down work on the 'stretching receptors.'

Since I'm circumcised, some of the more delicate sensations (like light touch) don't respond quite like they used to (See "The Prepuce" video at http://www.doctorsopposingcircumcision.org) --which is why I'm doing foreskin restoration. However, the deep pressure nerve receptors are still there, and so pressure through the pants still does something for me!

I'd be interested to hear more from guys on what they do to 'get it up' before they actually 'go at it.' I'm sure there's more to be capitalized on and shared when it comes to better techniques for getting and keeping good wood.

[dtwarren1942]

This morning I jerked off for the first time in about 3 years. I normally take care of my ejaculation needs through intercourse. As a sufferer of ED, I see no reason to waste my endangered erections on self gratification. Unfortunately, I had recently endured two weeks of intercourse without achieving orgasm (one of the side effects of diabetic neuropothy) so I was laying in bed this morning despairing over my fifth attempt to orgasm normally when I felt the need to orgasm with my hand in order to relive my pent up desire as well as clean out my prostate, which I still have.

I guess you can say I use my wife's vagina to to get good wood and keep it there.

[DavidR]

From discussions I've had with guys, my understanding is that guys who have not been circumcised often are able to masturbate without an erection (just moving the foreskin back and forth) while guys who have been circumcised usually need to have an erection. Any comments from anyone about this?