Use of Fleshlight to overcome anorgasmia (difficulty cumming)

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Re: Use of Fleshlight to overcome anorgasmia (difficulty cumming)

Postby ShopMan » Thu Nov 02, 2017 9:57 pm

Cigar56 wrote:Haven't measured but I get really long and girthy after injecting. Fleshlight has an endcap to control the suction and tightness. I wound up taking it off. That and a really good lube did the trick. Had some amazing orgasms with that thing.


What model did you get? Is this thing battery operated or??

Very interested but when I look at their web site my eyes glaze over because there are so many models.
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Re: Use of Fleshlight to overcome anorgasmia (difficulty cumming)

Postby retexan599 » Sun Dec 24, 2017 1:23 pm

I had tried the traditional Fleshlight product in the past, but it never felt right, too artificial, wrong texture, whatever. Thought I read a post in Franktalk about the version called a Quickshot and bought it on a whim:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0161NZJVY?th=1

I have used it twice and it is very much different from and better than the typical Fleshlight products. Although it is short, it has an internal texture that really feels good to me. With appropriate lube of course (I use melted coconut oil). I won't say it is a total replacement for my hand, but it works much better for me than the others. To put it mildly, the feeling was terrific and induced strong and satisfactory orgasms. YMMV, but it is a keeper for me.
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Re: Use of Fleshlight to overcome anorgasmia (difficulty cumming)

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Re: Use of Fleshlight to overcome anorgasmia (difficulty cumming)

Postby Cigar56 » Sat Dec 30, 2017 7:08 pm

ShopMan wrote:
Cigar56 wrote:Haven't measured but I get really long and girthy after injecting. Fleshlight has an endcap to control the suction and tightness. I wound up taking it off. That and a really good lube did the trick. Had some amazing orgasms with that thing.


What model did you get? Is this thing battery operated or??

Very interested but when I look at their web site my eyes glaze over because there are so many models.
Charlie


Hey Charlie,

Sorry I missed this. I have a couple models and planning to buy a few more.

One is "Dominika's Butterfly."
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0713 ... UTF8&psc=1

The other is the "Classic Pink Lady."
https://www.fleshlight.com/collections/ ... -pink-lady

Dominika is a tight little um, woman. Pink Lady feels broken in on the first day. I highly recommend both. Enjoy!
I've tried everything -- pills, injections pumps -- and now I am at the final frontier.

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Re: Use of Fleshlight to overcome anorgasmia (difficulty cumming)

Postby Reggieman » Mon Jan 01, 2018 12:18 pm

goodwoodnow-what's your ED history? Have you had a prostatectomy? I have the same problem with fading libido and greatly diminished penis sensitivity. While masturbating the limited excitement barely begins then it just fades away in a flash. No grand climax just a feeling that it's all over. The idea of retraining the body is intriguing. My prostatectomy left me with fading libido and declining penis sensitivity which is maddening. I use porn when masturbating after injecting with Bimix (10-15 units). I almost get bored looking at porn as my libido has dropped so low. It takes time to search porn to find something that I might find arousing. Pretty pathetic. I don't have sex very much with my wife anymore-no point. She is happy without it and is supportive if I choose to wander off and masturbate by myself. I'm seeing two uros regarding my injections and lack of libido but so far they have no answers. I'm wondering if I just have dead brain cells that cause my libido to drop. I keep thinking that if I could just get really horny then I could have a good orgasm. I am very frustrated as you can imagine. Seriously thinking stopping injections and hanging up my spurs. I miss sex and the intimacy that goes with it. I feel like a big part of my life died. I tell my wife my life is like a chocolate cake without the frosting.
Retired. R.P. 2016. Bilateral nerve sparing surgery. Now use .15cc of Bimix twice weekly & anorgasmia, moderately incontinent. Wife no longer interested so go solo with Electro-stim using Erostek ET-312. Now am Type 2 diabetic.

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Re: Use of Fleshlight to overcome anorgasmia (difficulty cumming)

Postby Reggieman » Thu Jan 04, 2018 9:39 am

I just ordered a Fleshlight. I'm willing to try anything that might help my situation. I'm running out of ideas as to how to deal with my problem.
Retired. R.P. 2016. Bilateral nerve sparing surgery. Now use .15cc of Bimix twice weekly & anorgasmia, moderately incontinent. Wife no longer interested so go solo with Electro-stim using Erostek ET-312. Now am Type 2 diabetic.

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Re: Use of Fleshlight to overcome anorgasmia (difficulty cumming)

Postby Reggieman » Thu Jan 04, 2018 8:40 pm

bidoink-Thanks for posting that site article.
Retired. R.P. 2016. Bilateral nerve sparing surgery. Now use .15cc of Bimix twice weekly & anorgasmia, moderately incontinent. Wife no longer interested so go solo with Electro-stim using Erostek ET-312. Now am Type 2 diabetic.

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Re: Use of Fleshlight to overcome anorgasmia (difficulty cumming)

Postby rdnkbiker » Fri Jan 05, 2018 6:53 am

I have the knock off version from amazon and it works great and less than half the price they do stimulate to orgasm and more I really like mine didn't know it could help with regaining sensation ill have to get mine out more often need some help in that department hopefully overcome the same issues you guys are talking about that's whats so nice on FT always learn new stuff

thanks guys
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