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I read a thing the other day that said that the problem we encounter with penile sensitivity is that, while masturbating, we tend to increase the death grip we have on our tally-whacker and then when the pussy, ass or mouth we are fucking isn't as tight, we don't enjoy it as much. There is a product called the "Fleshlight" you can get in sex toy shops. I paid $80 CDN (so a lot cheaper in the US. This is a manual masturbator that you pour lube on and whack off with it. The rubber pussy feels just like a pussy and you can soak it in hot water before you use it to make it a warm pussy. It does not increase the grip and is more like the real deal. This is suppose to increase your sensitivity over time. When you cum, you pull it out of the shell, turn it inside out and run hot water on it. When I first tried it, I didn't like it, but then I read the article and it all made perfect sense so I changed my mind about it once I learned what it's primary purpose was. Give it a try and let me know what you think.

Larry

I am 5weeks post op and my activation appointment is July 9. I have read where some say initial sex is painful and the cycling routine can also be uncomfortable. Would a Fleshlight help with that initial discomfort?

Andy1955 wrote:I am 5weeks post op and my activation appointment is July 9. I have read where some say initial sex is painful and the cycling routine can also be uncomfortable. Would a Fleshlight help with that initial discomfort?

It just might. When I first used it it felt like a loose woman and I didn't like it but, after reading that article, I understand why it was that way... it helps you get your sensitivity back. I did not find sex painful after the implant and cycling wasn't that bad either.

Larry

The Fleshlight method for bucking the death grip: http://curedeathgrip.com/plan-fleshlight.html

bldoink wrote:The Fleshlight method for bucking the death grip: http://curedeathgrip.com/plan-fleshlight.html

Yup, that's it.

Larry

Hi Guys!
I have talked about my new masturbating technique more than once so forgive me if you have read it before.

From the time I was 11 until the night before my Prostatectomy my focus when masturbating was always shooting my load. I generally had three small spurts so once I started to cum, it was over very quickly. After that surgery and not being able to shoot anymore, I had to reevaluate what I was doing. I started focusing on every feeling. Obviously there is the way your cock and balls feel in your hands, but there is also how your hands feel while touching them. I used to use the death grip and go at it like I was in a contest to see who could cum the quickest. My revised technique is very soft and slow. I spend way more time on my balls and below, too.

I also realized once my shooting days were over, those great sensations I had while cumming actually lasted longer. I had never noticed them before because I stopped jacking off right after I shot. Now I may feel more like 7 of those contractions.

I have been circumcised since I was 11 and my glans had gotten dry and lost much of its feeling. Several years ago I started massaging body moistening lotion on my entire dick and soon it felt better to the touch and I regained a lot of feeling.

Greg

Greg1956 wrote:Hi Guys!
I have talked about my new masturbating technique more than once so forgive me if you have read it before.

From the time I was 11 until the night before my Prostatectomy my focus when masturbating was always shooting my load. I generally had three small spurts so once I started to cum, it was over very quickly. After that surgery and not being able to shoot anymore, I had to reevaluate what I was doing. I started focusing on every feeling. Obviously there is the way your cock and balls feel in your hands, but there is also how your hands feel while touching them. I used to use the death grip and go at it like I was in a contest to see who could cum the quickest. My revised technique is very soft and slow. I spend way more time on my balls and below, too.

I also realized once my shooting days were over, those great sensations I had while cumming actually lasted longer. I had never noticed them before because I stopped jacking off right after I shot. Now I may feel more like 7 of those contractions.

I have been circumcised since I was 11 and my glans had gotten dry and lost much of its feeling. Several years ago I started massaging body moistening lotion on my entire dick and soon it felt better to the touch and I regained a lot of feeling.

Greg

Any particular body moistening lotion??

Larry

Fleshlight is my bff.

I oil down my dry skin, including dick and balls, with baby oil every morning after my shower and use Astroglide lubricant for any kind of sexual play.

When I first tried it, I didn't like it,

Larry I am with you on your 1st impression. For 80 bucks I have really tried to like it. Even considered getting the warming device to see if I could warm up to it.(Pun intended)
My wife and I are down to twice a week most weeks and I thought this would help keep the seminal fluid drained, but I just can't get into it.(Pun intended again!)
Over 50 years of good, quality, sex with an enthusiastic woman may have ruined this device for me. This thing does not remotely resemble the real thing. When I was a teenage boy I probably would have worn this out in a week or so.

I have read it can be used as a therapy for problems like the death grip, but for me as a masturbation aid I would rather sit on my hand until it goes to sleep than use this.

Larry10625 wrote:

Greg1956 wrote:Hi Guys!
I have talked about my new masturbating technique more than once so forgive me if you have read it before.

From the time I was 11 until the night before my Prostatectomy my focus when masturbating was always shooting my load. I generally had three small spurts so once I started to cum, it was over very quickly. After that surgery and not being able to shoot anymore, I had to reevaluate what I was doing. I started focusing on every feeling. Obviously there is the way your cock and balls feel in your hands, but there is also how your hands feel while touching them. I used to use the death grip and go at it like I was in a contest to see who could cum the quickest. My revised technique is very soft and slow. I spend way more time on my balls and below, too.

I also realized once my shooting days were over, those great sensations I had while cumming actually lasted longer. I had never noticed them before because I stopped jacking off right after I shot. Now I may feel more like 7 of those contractions.

I have been circumcised since I was 11 and my glans had gotten dry and lost much of its feeling. Several years ago I started massaging body moistening lotion on my entire dick and soon it felt better to the touch and I regained a lot of feeling.

Greg

Any particular body moistening lotion??

Larry

Larry,
I am not home to check the label but I would say the brand is not important. I have purchased different types. The important think is just to rehydrate the dry skin. My glans used to feel rough and dry. Now it is silky smooth.

Greg