Lift the female posting ban on FT - Please consider it.
Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2018 4:38 pm
First, let me say I am not here to incite rebellion This site is incredible and I know the work that setting up and running such a site requires. I share my observations because I care about the site, those that work to make it the best it can be, and my brothers that contribute so much support to each other. However, I was surprised just today to see that women apparently are banned from even registering on FT. I was sure I read a great account on here a while back of a live-in GF that that referred to implants as the new improved "Male 2.0". It was a great post. Maybe it was copied from somewhere else ???
As the founder and administrator (for 15 years) of Peyroniesforum.net, one of the most valuable things we ever did was set up a permanent "Women Speak Out" topic. As sexual creatures, we are not isolated and singular. These problems do not affect individuals. More often than not they affect couples. In fact, the male tendency to isolate and withdraw from everyday intimacy in touch and communication destroys many more lives than the physical aspects of ED. Isolating ourselves from a broad range of female perspective and input does a disservice to us men.
Furthermore, anyone that has ever run a volunteer organization knows that women are the engine of change. One only has to look at the disparity between breast cancer organization, advancements, and political clout, and then compare that to prostate cancer to see the proof. Women can be our most powerful allies in informing ourselves, drawing us out to confront the issue, affirming our decisions, and getting the ball rolling rather than just talking about it. MANY more men would find this site and conquer this issue if women were allowed.
Whatever the motivation, fear, or, concern is, you will find it is unfounded and wonder why you did not do this sooner.
As the founder and administrator (for 15 years) of Peyroniesforum.net, one of the most valuable things we ever did was set up a permanent "Women Speak Out" topic. As sexual creatures, we are not isolated and singular. These problems do not affect individuals. More often than not they affect couples. In fact, the male tendency to isolate and withdraw from everyday intimacy in touch and communication destroys many more lives than the physical aspects of ED. Isolating ourselves from a broad range of female perspective and input does a disservice to us men.
Furthermore, anyone that has ever run a volunteer organization knows that women are the engine of change. One only has to look at the disparity between breast cancer organization, advancements, and political clout, and then compare that to prostate cancer to see the proof. Women can be our most powerful allies in informing ourselves, drawing us out to confront the issue, affirming our decisions, and getting the ball rolling rather than just talking about it. MANY more men would find this site and conquer this issue if women were allowed.
Whatever the motivation, fear, or, concern is, you will find it is unfounded and wonder why you did not do this sooner.